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𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗱𝗲𝗮 𝗼𝗳 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗼𝘂𝘀 When we are kind and give to others, it makes friendships stronger and helps everyone feel connected. Even though people have different thoughts about giving — some think it's good, others too much — what if being kind is what makes us happy together? Choosing Between Saving or Sharing Think about living where taking care of yourself is against helping others. Imagine you're standing where two roads split. One is about saving a lot, and the other is filled with the beauty of sharing plenty. Which path feels right for you? The Many Sides of Being Kind Steven Reiss, Ph.D.'s book Who Am I, discusses what drives us inside, such as idealism, honor, social contacts, saving, and more—all parts of generosity. Think about how these things affect how you act with friends and at work. An Invitation to Do Something Big Kindness invites us to become better, to shift from thinking only about 'me' to thinking about 'us.' It challenges us to step out of our comfort zones, share with real feelings, think big, and bring us all closer together. Paint your world with endless kindness and fill your days with non-stop care. Answer the call to guide everyone towards our best future. What will you choose? Join me on a transformative journey as we uncover the generous paradox within ourselves. #Generosity #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth I am Brunello Gianella | Intrinsic Motivation Expert More real input about #Intrinsicmotivation, #Personality & #tacicknowledge 🔔 ring the bell on my profile and never miss a post again.

I used to think life was all about hustle-- chasing the approval of others. But I realized that true fulfillment comes from connecting with ourselves and becoming whole. It's about discovering what truly drives us beyond the superficial bullsh*t. The journey to self-discovery isn't about external achievements but finding harmony within. This path requires introspection and the courage to embrace our true desires. And most crucially… the support of those who matter most. These people offer us unconditional love, helping us navigate through life's challenges. They remind us that fulfillment comes from within and from the meaningful connections we nurture. The less we focus on impressing others, the more genuine relationships we develop. Because, ultimately, life is meant to be shared. And who better to share it with than those we truly connect with? #Fulfillment #Discovery #Community #Relationships

In a world full of darkness, being kind and helping others is really important. It means reaching out to people who are having a hard time and giving them support and advice. Being kind is about being patient and generous, and it helps people find their way when they're struggling. It's as if being a light in the dark and making things better. Even when things are tough, being positive can inspire others to keep going and find their own inner strength. When we're kind to others, it not only helps them, but it also makes a big difference in our communities. So let's all try to be kind and helpful, and spread positivity wherever we go. #balance #life #love #partnership #manifest #BelieveAndReceive #manifestanything #lifepalettecoaching

In the hustle and bustle of our lives, we often find ourselves chasing after success, wealth, and recognition. But what if I told you that true richness lies in inner peace? Prioritize Your Well-Being: Take a step back. Breathe. Reflect. Your peace of mind is invaluable. It’s the foundation upon which everything else rests. When you’re at peace, you’re better equipped to handle challenges, make sound decisions, and inspire others. Embrace Simplicity: Sometimes, we complicate our lives unnecessarily. Simplify. Let go of what no longer serves you—whether it’s toxic relationships, excessive commitments, or material possessions. Find joy in the simple things—a sunrise, a heartfelt conversation, or a warm cup of tea. Choose Your Battles Wisely: Not every battle is worth fighting. Preserve your energy for what truly matters. Let go of petty disagreements, grudges, and negativity. Instead, channel your energy toward positive change and growth. Connect with Nature: Nature has a magical way of restoring our peace. Take a walk in the woods, feel the sand between your toes, or gaze at the stars. Nature reminds us of our place in the universe—a small part of something vast and beautiful. Practice Mindfulness: Be present. When you eat, savor each bite. When you listen, truly hear. Mindfulness anchors you in the now, reducing anxiety about the past or future. Gratitude: Count your blessings. Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s lacking to what’s abundant. Write down three things you’re grateful for every day. Spread Kindness: Acts of kindness ripple through the world, touching hearts and creating a positive chain reaction. Smile at a stranger, lend a helping hand, or send an encouraging message. Remember, my friend, peace isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. Guard it fiercely, and watch how it transforms your life.

Thirukkural on Caring for Each Other **"இன்னா செய்தாரை ஒறுத்தல் அவர்நாண நன்னயம் செய்து விடல்."** - திருக்குறள் 314 ("The best punishment for those who do wrong is to shame them by doing good.") In corporate life, caring for each other fosters a supportive and productive environment. Thiruvalluvar’s wisdom reminds us that responding to negativity with kindness and integrity can transform workplaces. By nurturing a culture of mutual respect and care, employees are more motivated, collaborative, and engaged. This approach not only enhances individual well-being but also drives collective success. In personal life, this principle holds true as well. By caring for others and showing compassion, we build stronger relationships and a more harmonious community. When we respond to negativity with positive actions, we not only uplift others but also set a powerful example, encouraging a cycle of kindness and understanding. **#CorporateCulture #MutualRespect #EmployeeWellbeing #Thirukkural #WorkplaceHappiness #KindnessMatters #PersonalGrowth #CommunityBuilding** 💼🤝🌟

Here's a lesson and three points inspired by the quote "She needed that, we all need that": _Lesson:_ We all need support, encouragement, and love to thrive in life. Let's uplift and care for each other! ❤️ _Three Points:_ 1️⃣ _Support Each Other_: We all go through struggles, so let's be there for each other and offer a helping hand or listening ear. 🤝 2️⃣ _Encourage Growth_: Help others discover their strengths and passions, and encourage them to pursue their dreams. 🌱 3️⃣ _Love Unconditionally_: Embrace everyone with kindness, compassion, and acceptance, just as they are. ❤️ _Hashtags:_ #SheNeededThat #WeAllNeedThat #SupportEachOther #EncourageGrowth #LoveUnconditionally

It is hard to be kind. People often ask, 'How do you effortlessly engage with everyone? This is what I tell everyone—that it comes naturally to me—but the reality is quite different. Not many people were nice to me. Sometimes, even when I was around a lot of people, I felt really alone. I know how it feels to be left out. That made me want to help others who felt the same way I did. Even though it was not easy for me, I decided to be there for people who needed someone to listen. I've been through some tough situations, and it taught me to care for others. So, even if it's hard, I promise to be kind to others. No one should feel unseen or unheard, and I want to make sure of that. I'll be the same, stay the same, even if it's uncomfortable for me, and I'll try to be kind to others. Let's create an environment where everyone feels valued, heard, and supported. Together, let's make kindness our "default setting". Are you with me? #kindnessmatters #kinder #selfimprovement #happiness #realitycheck #bettertogether #growth #love #selflove #actofkindness #softwaredevelopment #itsales #businessdevelopmentexecutive

Who is the love of your life? Most people will say their kids, their spouse, their parents, their siblings, a best friend, or God, but did you appear on that list? So many times we put ourselves last when in actuality we need to remember to put ourselves first. Now I know some narcissist will take this point and say well I’m just putting myself first. There is a difference. A narcissist energy is rooted in self service. Service me. Whereas the rest of us are constantly looking at the fact that we need to take care of ourselves so we can serve others. Self-love is about making sure you are at your best so you can serve those around you. So how do we shift our mindset to: “I need to take care of myself so I can help those around me!”? When you are faced with a choice, ask yourself these questions: - Am I sacrificing my well-being and health by making this choice? - Am I afraid to say “no”? - What choice puts me in the best position to be at my best and serve others? In embracing self-love, it's pivotal to remember that prioritizing oneself isn't selfish but rather essential for nurturing the ability to care for others effectively. By consciously choosing actions that enhance our well-being, we not only strengthen ourselves but also empower our capacity to positively impact those around us. Radically loving ourselves enables a profound ripple effect, fostering genuine connections and meaningful contributions to the world. So, remember, by honoring and cherishing yourself, you are ultimately becoming a beacon of love and support for everyone in your life. #SelfLove #ServingOthers #RippleEffect #BOYBAS

Before you decide what you think about others, take a moment. What you see is just a part of who they are because they choose what they want to show. People are similar to onions; there are many layers, and what's on the outside might not tell everything. They decide what to share, and there's more to them, than you might see. Life is complicated, and everyone has their own experiences and feelings. So, before you make up your mind about other, remember that what you see is just a small part of their life. Let them show you more, and you might find there's more to them, than you first thought. #balance #life #love #partnership #manifest #BelieveAndReceive #manifestanything #lifepalettecoaching

Hear me out: they don’t deserve your anger. Not because their actions are just and not because you should tolerate bad behavior but because YOU deserve better. Don’t let negative people steal your peace. It’s not worth it. Sometimes you need to stay and fight for your convictions but other times you need to walk away. Wisdom is knowing the difference. Let me know if you hear me. P.S. Inspiration for this post, you will sometimes find negative and argumentative people on social media, thankfully less here on LinkedIn. Sometimes its important to address their concerns but other times its better to just keep on scrolling. Sometimes, I’ve misconstued comments that were actually supportive and other times, I’ve instantly regretted responding as it became a tit for tat game. Sometimes, your peace is more important than your need to be “right.” Love, Lan Phan community of SEVEN If you’ve found value in my posts, order my book Do This Daily: Secrets to Finding Success, Happiness, and Purpose in Work and Life: https://lnkd.in/ehxiRfA9