Let’s look at understanding our expectations from other people in a different part of our lives.
For instance, when people do a favour, love, or care (particularly in our region), they end up in a world where they expect to be appreciated for the things that they have done, or they do expect the same level of favour, love, or care from that individual. When they see that they have not been appreciated enough, or that they have not received a favour, love, or care, they probably do not feel that much good; they could not feel butterflies in their "stomach". All in all, it is not a good situation to be in. What if we think that doing a favour was our choice, the choice that we made with our "free will? What if we could accept other people’s free will as it is? With our free will, we choose to do a favour, to love, to care, etc. Not responding with favour, with love, or with care was related to their choice, to their "free will’ actions. No one is obliged to do anything according to our expectations. Our expectations make us a little bit stressed out or sad. The obliged person is us in this situation. If we can understand our expectations and be conscious of our free will and others, that recognition puts us at ease.
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1moAh Josh, I was wondering if the baby had made an appearance. Congrats, lovely news!