Happy Pride! This is me, on my 21st birthday. As June winds down, I've been thinking a lot about what this version of me believed about her future. It was the 1990s. I had been "out" to my family for less than a year. I did not believe I would be allowed to marry legally. I didn't have faith in a future that would include children, and I assumed I'd need to consider geography carefully when choosing where to live. I worried I'd need to be careful about employment. Here I am, decades later, aware of just how much can change in a generation: I am legally married. My name is on my children's birth certificates. My employer has hung a rainbow of colorful balloons around the LinkedIn sign in our New York office (where I report most days.) When things feel dark, I remember: change is possible!
Great post! I read your book recently and loved learning about your journey!
So valuable, Jessi! I will tuck this away and remember your passion. (After reading The Family Outing, I wondered what you looked like with a buzz cut😆)!
Yours is an amazing story of world of possibilities. Congrats!
Exactly change is possible!
It's strange to realize that you've been alive and changing longer since you were 21... What more surprises can be ahead? You've made wonderful choices during your life, so keep up the good work!
This is so great! I love this messaging for younger generations to understand that if things look bleak for you now, there is a brighter future. I was thinking the other day of the messy and traumatic way I came out and how for years I was so unkind to myself. Now I’m getting married and I too am basking in the supportive glow of our employer. Thanks for sharing this Jessi Hempel !
God almighty Bless you! DON T EVER THINK OF GIVING UP! You are a good person and that’s all that matters! GODBless. Gay people!
Jessi Hempel Your journey is inspiring. Happy Pride! Here's to a future of acceptance and equality.
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1moI’m not sure if you remember, but I interviewed you for Teen Vogue in the early 2000s when Bush was in office and marriage wasn’t legal. Your story was inspiring and so interesting. I love that in many ways, although it seems like the world is regressing, we have made some progress 💜🌈💜