Jessie Remillard, M.S., SHRM-CP, SWP’s Post

10 Life Choices We Will All Regret in 10 Years or Less (If We Aren’t Careful): 1. Letting others tell us what we are worth 2. Being too busy impressing others and forgetting about our priorities 3. Letting uncertainty stop us 4. Focusing on failures instead of present opportunities 5. Holding on too tight to how things were “supposed” to be 6. Playing the victim for too long 7. Waiting, overanalyzing, and never taking action 8. Being too busy to appreciate life 9. Not spending enough quality time with the right people 10. Not expressing our love openly and fully

It is not easy for the young to understand where they are going, and it is not easy for the old to understand where they've been and where they are in the present moment. If you take a step back and analyze, both moments are glorious:) The uncertainty of youth eventually becomes the certainty & significance of the path you have already walked. Sometimes you find yourself caught in between: too old to remember, too young to forget. Or vice-versa:) Life isn't a straight line. Embrace the bumps, the ups and downs, the joys and struggles, and recognize that there is a reason behind everything, even if sometimes you feel the urge to question it all, and grab God by the collar. Life is not a straight line but death it is. There is a time for action and a time for contemplation. Life may sometimes put you in the backseat just to provide a better view and a deeper understanding. The worries of the street no longer burden you; you are no longer the driver. So, relax and enjoy the ride; after all, you've paid for it.

Turning Thirty — As I approach what I feel is a significant moment in my life, I couldn't help but remember my past decade's journey. There is a stark contrast between my 20-year-old self and who I am today. I found myself grappling with a sense of disappointment. Why was this feeling creeping in? Society paints a picture of what I should achieve by the age of 30, a checklist of accomplishments to tick off. But as I took stock of my own journey, I realised something. I began by cataloguing my perceived "failures" and "triumphs". Surprisingly, my list of failures was short, primarily comprising monetary setbacks. In contrast, my victories were abundant and diverse, spanning relationships, family bonds, friendships, travel experiences, and core memories that have built the cornerstone of my happiness. This revelation led me to question the source of my disappointment. If my wins outweigh my losses, should I not be content? And if my setbacks are mainly financial, perhaps there's reason to celebrate. In the grand tapestry of life, success isn't solely measured by monetary wealth. The richness of our relationships, the depth of our experiences, and the memories we create hold far greater significance. As I stand on the edge of a new decade, I choose to embrace these invaluable treasures and redefine what it means to be truly HAPPY. My New List For The Next Decade - More family time - Deeper relationships  - Physical health  - Mental health  - Time outdoors  - Give back - Embrace yourself My two cents ❤️

Life without a vision is like a car without a steering wheel. It moves in the direction the driver does not expect. Be keen at your vision and pursue it with self discipline, positive mindset and ceaseless prayers… It’s not too late. As years pass by you will start assessing yourself, consider your age, your achievement and then compare with your colleagues or age mates and when you realize you’ve not done much, then you start having negative thoughts. Where did I go wrong? Look at my colleague, my age mate, who sat with me in the same class. I was even the one who assisted him in learning certain subjects. I was far ahead of him in academics. Now he’s married with kids, built a mansion with a beautiful saloon car. In fact, you will make comparisons upon comparison and think that you have failed in life. Hey!! My brother or sister do not in your life compare yourself to anyone. You are who you are, but you’re not like anyone. Keep on pursuing your vision with positive mindset, good conscience, commitment, faithfulness, hard work. Pray ceaselessly for God’s favor and one day your tears will turn happiness. My posting has delayed for three years getting to four years now and indeed life seems delayed yet, I take inspiration from people who had same experience but their story line changed suddenly when they kept praying while they pursue their goal. Therefore, I know one day things will change, just as my Principal, Mr. Frederick Inkum Danquah assured me of. All I should do is to have a vision and never digress from the right path to accomplish that vision.

Jen Hitze : “No quantity of wealth, awards, or leisure can equate to happiness. Even if you dedicate your entire life to achieving wealth, fame, and ample free time, you may still find yourself unhappy. So, instead of chasing after what you think will provide the most external rewards, do what brings you inner satisfaction. And don’t mistake my advice for the cliché, “follow your passion.” I recently wrote about passions and made the rationale that the word passion was never intended to describe one’s “pastime,” nor was it synonymous with “pleasure;” rather, it is more closely associated with pain. What brings you inner satisfaction is your vocation – the thing you’re designed to do. It’s the thing that you know you’ll regret not having done when you’re on your deathbed. It’s the thing that scares the bejesus out of you, but shows up regularly in your daydreams. It won’t be easy, it probably won’t come naturally, and it will use you up. But its pursuit will bring you fulfillment. You’ll be challenged and busy, you’ll utilize your unique gifts, and you’ll be an extraordinary success – all because you dared to take a leap of faith with your one life.”

But it is certain that he is one of those who believe that you have to work very hard to get by; But today, you are young, and you come from a family like mine, or all the time, you were told that you should go to school, get great diplomas and that this would guarantee your future ; That's it, that we all believed in it; I Believed It Myself; But when I observed the realities of active life itself, well I couldn't continue to believe it; It Would Have Been A Sin Against Myself And Those Who Come After Me; Maybe you who are reading me already have your own job, and you and your little family feel comfortable; But Really, Everyone Knows That Already On Date 15 or 16 The Rent Is Over; I don't know what thousand acrobatics you manage to complete the rest of the month; But wouldn't you think it's time to accept reality and think differently??? Because Someone Said: “If You Want to Change Your Life, Change The Way To Think”; Because Maybe It's Your Way Of Thinking That Makes You Not See All The Other Things Around You; But, I Can Tell You That LIFE OFFERS ENOUGH ABUNDANCE For Everyone; The time when it was only those who had big capital, could own a business, could have everything they wanted is over; Everyone Can Have The Life They Want; Everyone Without Any Obsession; It's Boring, I Know; Work Routine; But let's ask ourselves why we work??? How to Live, If There is No Personal Fulfillment??? I Don't Talk To Those Who Love Their Job And It's Their Whole Life; Because They Are Already Happy; I Talk To Those Who Are Fed Up But Don't Know What To Do Or How To Fix It; Know that there IS STILL HOPE!!! But This Hope Cannot Be Founded On Wishes, Prayers; It is based on decision-making, the real desire to do something; If You Think You Are At This Level, Then You Can Count On US!!! Life Is Not Alone; “On The Road-Boulot-Sleep”; << Life is too short to think about living it small>> Let there be light ENAKPODE, The Eye of the Father of His Father and His Ancestors! << “Consciousness, Saw and Will Always See Before the Eyes of the Head” ........OJOULON'GBE>>

Leave your personal life aside… Only if you want everything else to fall apart. I started my journey of leadership coaching 3 years ago because I wanted to be the best at the company I was at. I wanted titles. I wanted money. I wanted recognition. But with each goal I reached, I didn't feel like it was enough. I would chase a new goal, achieve it, then need the next big thing. I never really felt the joy of my achievements. I felt tired all the time. Every day of the week. Then I started feeling empty. My body began to show signs; I would come home feeling like I was going to faint. Then I experienced sudden life changes; I got laid off just before I moved to a new country. Now I reflect back and it has been a year of living in Italy and leaving all my professional security behind to marry the love of my life and start from 0 in a new country. But most importantly, I now understand that the most beautiful growth I have ever experienced comes from a state of piece of mind. Maybe life had to forcefully show me this; maybe I wasn't ready to see it on my own. But regardless of the situation, life takes you to the right place at the right time to show you that happiness does not come from focusing on just one aspect of what makes us human. So thanks for this amazing year, life. I’m beyond grateful. P.S.: If you feel like your entire body and nervous system is asking for a change, please just go for it. Trust your gut.

Great read with lots of little nuggets. Life's Little Instruction Book by H. Jackson Brown, Jr. 1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery. 2. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent. 3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. 5. Be forgiving of yourself and others. 6. Be generous. 7. Have a grateful heart. 8. Persistence, persistence, persistence. 9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary. 10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated. 11. Commit yourself to constant improvement. 12. Commit yourself to quality. 13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect. 14. Be loyal. 15. Be honest. 16. Be a self-starter. 17. Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong. 18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life. 19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did. 20. Take good care of those you love. 21. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud. Have a fantastic Friday!

We just finished a series on the Top Five Regrets of the Dying. It really spoke to me. We should learn from those who have gone before us on how best to live a meaningful and fulfilled life. Here is a summary of the fove regrets we covered over the past five days. 1️⃣ **I Wish I'd Had the Courage to Live True to Myself:** Many regret not pursuing their dreams and living according to others' expectations. The takeaway? Be unapologetically you and chase your passions. 2️⃣ **I Wish I Hadn't Worked So Hard:** Work isn't everything. Those nearing the end wish they'd balanced career with family, friends, and self-care. Remember, life's richness comes from these connections. 3️⃣ **I Wish I'd Had the Courage to Express My Feelings:** Suppressing feelings leads to regret. Be open, communicate, and cultivate meaningful relationships. Vulnerability is strength. 4️⃣ **I Wish I Had Stayed in Touch with My Friends:** Neglecting friendships often leads to remorse. Prioritize relationships; they're lifelines through life's storms. 5️⃣ **I Wish That I Had Let Myself Be Happier:** Waiting for happiness is futile. Choose joy, embrace imperfections, and savor life's small pleasures. These lessons are more than regrets; they're blueprints for a fulfilling life. Let's honor those who've shared their wisdom and apply it to our own journeys. 🌈 #LifeLessons #RegretsOfTheDying #LiveWithNoRegrets #Happiness #AuthenticLiving #FerrariHighPerformance