This person has $1.5 million in the bank and feels “dead inside” — because they made this terrible mistake: They never identified what they’re working towards. At all times, of everything we do, we need to ask ourselves: “WHAT IS THIS FOR?” We must know the purpose of our actions, based on our own definition of success — because otherwise, we’ll drive hard with no destination. Maybe you've heard the old saying: Businesses don’t die of starvation; they die of indigestion. (In other words, they die from doing too much, not too little.) That applies to us as individuals too — because so many of us are programmed to chase MORE, MORE, MORE. But… what is more FOR? Know what you’re doing it for. Know where you’re going. That way, you can know when you got there. If this post was helpful, please share it and follow Jason Feifer for more. 🚀 Every week, I share one way you can improve your work — and build a career or company you love: jasonfeifer.com/newsletter
I quit a stable Fortune 500 job, feeling like working in a boiler room in a Titanic. That led my wife and I to net $2M with no debt: I joined a Y Combinator startup when it operated behind a garage door. When the startup grew to a 300 company. I quit because I wanted more time with my first child. The startup later exited at $317M, but the stock did not help much to our net worth. What worked was that I started a one-person company—first consulting. Then I created automated service to earn while I sleep. I met interesting people and felt more ownership and purpose, including spending time with my family. Now, I also own a SaaS business that is cashflow positive. We can earn without selling our souls while spending time with families.
I think there is nuance to this because the reality is that the “what is it for?” question changes or evolves as we age. To that end, it can be okay to work your ass off early at the expense of other things. Everything has a trade off. If you want to create a safety net early, so you can take chances later or pursue passion projects, that’s okay. I think a mistake is to think you have one purpose in life or in your career that is inflexible. We all change, priorities shift, goals expand or shrink and that is all okay and normal.
Richest man ever King Solomon said - Ecclesiastes 1:14 I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind. This was towards the end of his life as he himself had acquired all he had but was empty and had a hole in his heart - lost his purpose as he had followed his 1,000 wives and concubines and followed their false gods and had grown apart from the True God who spoke to him. Thought he would find happiness on his own but apart from God it is impossible to be truly happy. Most all worldly rich follow their own god - god money and don't know the real God - His name is Jesus. Follow Him and it will give you purpose. Love God with your heart, soul and mind and Love others as you love yourself. Two key commandments.
And yet, better be rich and “dead inside” than broke and “dead inside” 😅 I wish this person the best.
Knowing where we’re headed makes life richer.
Purpose is everything.
I saw this on Reddit too, and it really resonated
I am forever asking clients, when they're thinking about a course of action: "What is the *outcome* you want from this?" A whole lot of the time, they either can't define it, or (more commonly) they realize it's unlikely to actually be the result of what they're thinking of doing.
Another issue is driving to the goal without focusing on enjoying the journey. A journey worth taking shouldn't leave you feeling dead inside.
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2wI’m talking about this very topic right now as well! So much so that I’m launching a new brand to help people create this shift so life and work can be fulfilling and aligned with purpose. I’m really looking forward to digging into this more with successful women who want to move into flow and ease (and away from the pain and strain). So fun seeing YOU talk about this too Jason Feifer !