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During pregnancy, every woman undergoes physical and mental changes. It is necessary to pay attention to the proper care of women during this time. Professor Rumana Basar said that the mental state of the expectant mother affects her unborn child. During this period, women's bodies were weak, which affected their minds. For many women, her physical weakness is mentally debilitating. As a result, the mood of many people becomes sour; many become suspicious again. Generally, intercourse is not prohibited during the first two months and the last two months of pregnancy. However, many voluntarily abstain from intercourse. Since this is a normal thing and pregnancy requires abstaining from intercourse, some women may develop distrust towards their husbands. In that situation, it is not right to get hotheaded or quarrelsome. It has the potential to harm both the mother and the baby. What the husband should do to reduce his wife's suspicions To handle this kind of situation, you have to maintain trust between the two, and if the wife has doubts for any reason, try to convince her without getting hotheaded. Also, try to give your wife as much time as possible. If you walk with your wife sometimes, check her health, and plan with your child in the future, there will be no chance for doubt to take root in the wife's mind. On the other hand, if the husband gives less attention and time to his wife during this time and gets angry or quarrels for no reason, then the wife's suspicion will increase. So consider the mother's and child's physical and mental health, treat the wife positively, and give her time. What to do to control the temper of the wife As a husband- Many women become irritable during pregnancy. The main reason for this is hormonal changes. If the wife is angry or in a bad mood, then smile and talk to her and treat her well. Please do not be harsh with him under any circumstances. If you don't reciprocate his words, his mood will change. But sometimes it is impossible to control yourself, try not to misbehave with your wife, and be busy with other things, and later, if you are cold, it is better not to bring up old things, says Rumana Basar. Other family members: The expectant mother may sometimes feel lonely or helpless in the in-law's house. At this time, if someone close to him is kept by his side, his mind is cheerful. In most cases, keeping the woman with her father's family or relatives is impossible. In this case, the people of the father-in-law's house should treat him like a friend and care for him. If in-laws and other family members treat the expectant mother well, her mind will be sound, and confidence will be created. Since the mother's mind affects the child, if the mother is happy, her unborn child will feel relief towards other family members after birth. If the mother does not have peace of mind or if the mother is very irritable during pregnancy, then the child can also be irritable after birth.

psychosis associated with pregnancy and childbirth. A pregnant woman was hallucinating and claiming a scan result that didn’t exist. It was a very funny scene until a colleague enlightened me about this very rare condition that might arise during pregnancy . ⬇️⬇️⬇️ Many women of childbearing age may suffer from ante or postnatal depression. Amongst women who become unwell at this time, a very small number develop a psychosis. Why does this happen? We all know that stress, and the cumulative effect of stress, can play a contributory role in a developing psychosis during this delicate time including some other factors like changes in hormonal levels, body size, other life changes like leaving a job, financial worries, lack of support, etc. This and some other factors like previous illness in the family, and in some cases cannabis can play a contributory role in a developing psychosis during or after pregnancy What is it like? Psychosis may show up in various ways during pregnancy or soon after giving birth. Sometimes it can happen without noticing. What would be noticed? Sometimes a mother may become overactive and more talkative, with strings of ideas which appear confused. She may stay awake all night and become preoccupied with things other than the baby. What else? Sometimes the mother may present as feeling low in mood and be slowed down, sleeping and be slowed down, sleeping and eating poorly and ignoring her baby. She may develop odd thinking. This might include unusual ideas, such as that the baby is not hers or belongs to someone else. Anything else? She may hear voices or see things that other people do not see. Colours, sounds and smells may be perceived differently. The mother may become muddled and confused or seem dreamy. She may think others are trying to influence her in ways that are not possible like receiving messages over the television. What should I look for? Here are some early warning signs to look out for in the comment section⬇️⬇️⬇️ #Reproscientist

Mothers to be and Pregnancy 🤰🏻 As I worked in the the government hospital in last few years, I have been through different cases and met many different kinds of couples having different background and status. What I observed is that, they have one thing in common and that is their unhealthy lifestyle with anxiousness to become parents. Conceiving now a days, is not so easy but has become a topic of stress among young couples. Young women have become more conscious about the “AFTER EFFECTS” of pregnancy and tends to be more tensed out, having mood swings, hormonal changes and what not. Once they become pregnant, then ,they become conscious about their health. But , how many of you think that the journey of becoming a mother is not easy and should be taken care before planning a baby. This is what our ancestors have advised. There are four main factors which gives rise to a healthy baby. They are- A good meeting time, a healthy womb, good nourishment via amniotic fluid and good sperm and ovum (i.e Ritu, Kshetra, Ambu and beej). All these together gives you a healthy baby. 🤰🏻 Pregnancy brings phenomenal changes in a woman’s body. Many changes are well recognized but many of them are not, they are only felt by her. The intestines are compressed upwards and backwards 🙁, diaphragm moves up compressing the lungs and heart 😣. The heart increases its pumping capacity 30-40% more to fulfill the requirement of two😨. The bladder is pressurized due to increasing uterus size which will cause frequent urination😫 Changes in hormones brings mood swings and change in her attitude and body😓 All these changes are well handled by a mother to be when her body and mind are healthy. She will be able to cope up with all these changes and would enjoy her new journey. Yoga and exercise with a good balanced diet is very important for young mothers to be. I request new mothers who are planning to become mothers, adopt yoga and exercise. Give your body and soul a kick of fitness and start your new journey. Even during pregnancy many of yoga asanas and meditation are safe to be practiced. This will not only help you during your pregnancy but also you’re your body required strength to recover fast post deliver. First prepare your body and yourself to enjoy the new beginning of motherhood.🥰🥰 I am here to help all the would-be happy mothers in their journey.🤗 Believe and Receive. Spread Happiness. Yours Loving Vaidya Dr.Pooja Bhardwaj #health #happiness #planning #motherhood # #fitness #pregnancy

Someone told me she was newly pregnant. Instead of being happy, I internally panicked. My emotions threw me off guard, but my response to her shocked me more. I know the heartache you feel when it seems like everyone else around you can get pregnant and have a healthy baby, but you can't. I've had my fair share of moments filled with anger, avoidance, and more than a few choice words. But I've faced my emotions head on. And it's safe to say - I'm now genuinely happy when people are pregnant. ❓ So what triggered my panic for this announcement? My pregnancy went wrong at the end of the first trimester. The fragility of pregnancies prior to the 12th week is (as I discovered) amplified in my mind. When you lose a pregnancy, a part of you spends the rest of your life waiting for the other shoe to drop. Since this is one of the few pregnancies I know about prior to the 12th week - I leaped to catch a shoe that wasn't even falling! My mind immediately went to all the negative thoughts I had during my second pregnancy, like: "How could this possibly go right?" My heart broke for her thinking about her having to tell people it went wrong. But I reminded myself - while there are a lot of miscarriages, most pregnancies end well. My story is not her story. My panic doesn't need to be hers. I am open about my experience with pregnancy loss because it can help a lot of people. But it can also do damage to the wrong audience. A newly pregnant person has enough anxiety as is. She doesn't need to hear about how it can all go wrong. So, in my moment of panic, what did I do? ✅ I congratulated her. ✅ I kept the conversation about her. A simple "how are you feeling about your pregnancy?" did the trick! Learning about how she's having a tough time coping with extreme nausea gave me time to calm down and get out of my unnecessary panic mode. So here are my lessons: ✅ You can't always be waiting for something to go wrong. ✅ Stories can both help and hurt, so know your audience. ✅ When you find yourself tongue tied, keep the conversation about the other person. While I masked my emotions with my friend, I still find this story important to share. Because everyone's emotions can surprise them at some point. And that's ok! Have you ever been taken aback by your emotional reaction to a situation?

I became a life saver: Part 2(concluding part). (A true life story of Mrs A.) ..........Within my mind, I began to pray for her, also hoping that everything would go well, and I followed up with her. Despite trying her number several times, I couldn't reach her. I assumed it might be due to network issues, so I remained calm. The next day, upon opening my WhatsApp, I found her message which read: Mrs A: My mummy, thanks for summoning me yesterday. You are God sent. You came into my life at the right time and your impact is inevitable. "Reading her message, I was nearly moved to tears. I replied, "All thanks to God. She went on to explain that she had been admitted to the hospital since her arrival and was rushed to the operating theatre for an emergency Caesarean section due to an ectopic pregnancy. I exclaimed, "Ectopic pregnancy?!" and she confirmed it. Ectopic pregnancy occurs when a fertilized egg implants outside the uterus, often in the fallopian tube, which can lead to further risks. She added that the doctors noted she was pale and nearly fainting, but thankfully, everything went smoothly. She has already been discharged and recovering well at home. Reflecting on the situation, I couldn't help but wonder what might have happened if I hadn't create that group for pregnant moms. Would she have received the help she needed? As for whether she'll ever forget me, I believe this professional act won't be forgotten as only time will tell. 📌📌📌 Just imagine, I didn't create that group where you can express your feelings as a pregnant mom??? What could have happened to her? Do you think she will ever forget such a act in any way?????? ♻️♻️ Friends, Please feel free to share your thoughts on this story in the comments section. I also have something for you in the comments section. I am Esther Iyanuoluwa Garuba, NURSEGET, #pregnancycoach. I guide expectant mothers to have a stress-free and healthy pregnancy journey every step of the way. Send a DM and let's create a stress-free and healthy pregnancy together. #NURSEGET #PregnancyCoach #storytelling #ayogrowthsquad

It’s completely normal to experience some anxiety during pregnancy. Your body is changing, and the thought of becoming a new parent can feel worrying. You’re not alone in how you think. But if you’re anxious a lot of the time and struggle to relax, it could be time to ask for help and find ways to cope with anxiety to support a healthy mind and baby. In this article, we talk about the impact of anxiety on pregnancy and ways you can manage anxiety.  Read more below. https://lnkd.in/gz8x7TiY

Many of you will have read my blog post on my experience of post-natal depression (https://lnkd.in/e9H8XaGd) and know it's something I feel passionately about. My birth was difficult and I feel strongly that this led to my struggle to bond with my son. There is now a Birth Trauma Inquiry that is open to submissions from those who have experienced or witnessed birth trauma, including healthcare professionals and partners/loved ones. This is an opportunity to contribute to an important conversation on what changes we can make to support those giving birth. I believe we have a culture of silence around giving birth and the more honest conversations we can have earlier on in pregnancy the better. Birthing people are sheltered from the realities of birth only to find themselves overwhelmed when the time comes, unequipped with the information they need to make informed choices. A greater understanding of interventions and processes would allow those giving birth to feel more in control during a time which feels very out of control. Everyone should be given sufficient time to write a birth plan with their midwife and have an honest discussion about the kinds of choices they may need to make. It is unrealistic to expect to be able to cover all possibilities, but more information is needed. Greater communication and information sharing are my recommendations to the inquiry. If you would like to make a submission you can find out more information here: https://lnkd.in/efN4SRPY

**Trigger warning: this post is about baby loss/miscarriage**   I've thought for quite some time about what/if I should post on LinkedIn regarding this topic. Although this is a personal post, I want to use this platform to discuss my experience and encourage people to break the taboo around miscarriage/baby loss. November 2023 was the month that everything changed for me. I got pregnant for the first time. By week 6, I knew something wasn't right and was admitted to the hospital. There, I was told that the pregnancy wasn't progressing as it should and that my husband and I should prepare for the worst. This wasn't how I expected pregnancy to go, but I kept my head high and thought about what the future might bring. Very quickly after my first loss, I found out I was pregnant again, and I can tell you I felt such a mixture of emotions. Happiness that I was pregnant again, but this gut-wrenching fear that it would end in the same way. Fast forward to week 9, when I scheduled a private scan, I went into the scan with two voices in my head, one reassuring me that everything would be okay and another telling me to prepare for the worst. Unfortunately, the worst came, and I was told that my baby's heart had stopped at week 8 ❤️ I wanted the world to swallow me whole. I couldn't breathe. And the worst thing was that I knew I had to go to the hospital to receive treatment. It has been one month since I heard that news, and I have decided to return to work, a decision I haven't taken lightly. But I have to say a big thanks to 3D Group, who have made this past couple of months far easier knowing my employer supports me. So, this leads me to the point of this post!    Given that 1 in 4 pregnancies end in loss (of those recorded), it is likely we all know someone male or female who has experienced such a devastating loss. 50% of UK adults said that they, or someone they know, had experienced at least one form of pregnancy or baby loss.    I hope that opening up the dialogue helps at least one person or a business consider what they can do to support someone through this difficult time.   🤗 It's vital to stay informed and show compassion. Engage on this topic whether it has affected you or not. Ask questions and learn how you can support your friends and colleagues. It is a very isolating time for those mums or dads grieving. You don't have to know what to say, but the simple act of acknowledging someone's loss can help.   📃 Have policies in place It's vital to ensure that your company has supportive policies in place. It would be comforting to know that there is a miscarriage or bereavement policy offering support, time off, and flexibility for those who may need it.   🌟 Open up If you have experienced loss, feeling hesitant about sharing your feelings is okay. However, having a support system can provide comfort and strength during this challenging time. Cont in comments... #miscarriage #emotionalwellbeing #mentalhealth💗💙

Pregnancy is very important factor or event in a woman’s life and if the same happens in her lucky time or at least on a lucky date then post pregnancy time will be smooth. But recently actress Rubina Dilaik mentioned about her ‘Postpartum Depression’ for which she is undergoing counselling. Numerology definitely has answer to it for such negative situation. Her DOB is 26/8/1987 Driver No. 26= 8 Saturn. She delivered twin daughters at running age of 37= 1 Sun, actually quite good for No. 8 people. Unfortunately she delivered baby on 27/11/2023. 27= 9 Mars, enemy of 8 27+11+2023= 9 too and so that day had double power of 9 which was unlucky for her. As a result now in her running age of 38= 2 Moon, she developed stress situation as 2 is unlucky for No. 8 people and stress is under 2. Also 27/11 was Monday ruled by Moon 2 again unlucky for her. Now such situation can be handled in hospital by considering following factors. 1. Admit woman in the hospital on her lucky date. 2. Select a Bed No. lucky for her. 3. If possible if you are going for artificial delivery then select her lucky date. 3rd point is very important as sometimes you may not have control over it but atleast you can try. By Numerology you can have idea of your future event related to health in such cases. #PregnancyJourney #PostpartumCare #MaternalHealth #NumerologyForHealth #LuckyDates #StressManagement #ChildbirthPreparation #MaternityWellness #NewMomStruggles #NumerologyInsights #HealthAwareness #WellnessTips #MotherhoodChallenges #MentalHealthSupport #PostpartumDepression

"Your pregnancy will affect your career..." These words, spoken to one of my clients after she joyously announced her pregnancy to her boss, reflect a harsh reality many women face in the corporate world. Having struggled with fertility issues and finally achieving her dream through fertility reflexology, her initial excitement was dampened by this daunting response. If you've encountered similar judgements or if anxiety about how pregnancy will impact your professional life is weighing on you, you're not alone. It's crucial to address these fears not just personally, but also within the broader corporate culture. Join me for a free webinar on hypnobirthing, where we’ll discuss how to manage pregnancy with grace and strength in a professional setting. Learn about the support systems and strategies that can help you maintain your career trajectory while embracing motherhood. This session is designed to support you with calm and confidence, providing a structured approach to the available support and resources. Let’s ensure your pregnancy is an experience of joy and empowerment, not one of stress and uncertainty. 📅 Mark your calendar! Join me on 25th July from 7pm to 8pm, to explore how hypnobirthing can support your journey both at home and in the workplace. Let's navigate this chapter together and transform how pregnancy is perceived in our professional lives. #CorporateWomen #PregnancyAndCareer #Hypnobirthing #Empowerment #ProfessionalMotherhood