Darlene Drew’s Post

"𝑰𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒅𝒖𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒌𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒘𝒆 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒇𝒐𝒄𝒖𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒆𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕." - Aristotle It can be easy to feel lost and overwhelmed when times are tough. Let's take a moment this Monday to find that light and keep pushing forward. Remember, focusing on the positive and finding strength in difficult times can make all the difference. Whatever you're going through, there is light at the end of the tunnel. If you know someone who is going through a tough time, help them find a light to focus on to get them through - sometimes a fresh set of eyes is all that's needed to find a solution to problems faced. #inspirationalquotes #connectionswithimpact #mondaythoughts

Did you notice a rise in anxiety levels lately? It's not just you, it's all of us. There's a lot of ambiguity and uncertainty, both economically and politically. But what we can control is ourselves. Here are some things I remind myself every day: 1. Act with kindness, even in the face of opposition. 2. Spread positivity, because it's contagious and makes me happy. 3. Live in the present, and always remember that the past always seems better than it was and the present will look better in the future. 4. If I'm stuck on a task or in a conflict, step away and come back with fresh eyes. 5. Put myself in the other person's shoes and think about the situation from all angles. I've been consciously pushing myself to practice these things more often lately. Let's all focus on what we can control and make the world a better place, one small action at a time. #positivemindset #bettertomorrow

We've all been there – analyzing every possible scenario, doubting our decisions, and drowning in a sea of "what-ifs." But here's the truth: Overthinking rarely leads to progress. This week, challenge yourself to break free. Instead of getting lost in your thoughts, take that leap of faith. Trust God and hang in there Truth is, what is the worst that can happen? At the time when Elo Stacy Akporeha would ask me this, I didn’t get it but now I do. Perfection is overrated, and waiting for the perfect moment most times means waiting forever. Take imperfect action, learn along the way, and adjust your course as needed. Imagine the incredible things you can achieve when you silence the overthinking and take bold steps toward your goals. Your potential is boundless, and Monday is the perfect day to go for it! Have a great week. #MondayMotivation #ActionOverOverthinking #EmbraceYourPotential

When you are sick. When you are in pain. When you are overwhelmed. Your body is trying to talk to you. 🥰 Your emotions are trying to get your attention. You don’t need to push through. You don’t need to override and ignore. You don’t even need to collapse and succumb. You can ride the wave of the pain. You can get curious about what it’s trying to tell you. Notice the fear that arises when you listen. Ride that wave too. 🌊 All of this is information that you get to decide what to do with. But how could you make an informed decision if you don’t listen first? #emotionalintelligencecoach #executivecoaching #leadershipcoaching

I love my mother-in-law. I really do. But sometimes I question her thinking. Cici is a self-professed “professional worrier.” She worries about her family. She worries about the weather. She worries about if she is worrying enough about all the things to worry about. I would argue that her worrying oftentimes careens into catastrophizing. Whatever the worst possible outcome is in any given situation, her mind goes there. We were watching a recent Carolina football game. The Heels gave up a big play on defense, and Cici immediately proclaimed: “If this game gets out of hand, I’m going upstairs!” The score? 0-0. Her brain had extrapolated that one bad play would lead to a dismal outcome. [Ironically, I saw this Dr. Pepper commercial last weekend that echoed a similar sentiment about negative overreaction: https://buff.ly/3RL7pF6 ] It made more sense how she developed this mindset during her recent visit last week. I returned from a run to find Cici on the couch watching the morning news. In the span of two minutes, the news detailed a double murder, a robbery, and an impending hurricane. Years of absorbing that negativity every morning will cause anyone to think about the worst possible result. Here are three keys to worrying less and building a positive mindset: 1) No devices for the first hour after you wake up. Your subconscious mind is most susceptible to mental programming right after you wake up and right before you go to sleep. Take some time in the morning to exercise, meditate, or simply go for a walk outside before you stare at a screen. 2) Eliminate (or severely limit) watching the news. The news is designed to scare you or make you mad. Cut it out of your life and see how it feels. Abstinence makes the mind grow stronger. 3) Absorb positive material daily. It’s not enough to remove negative media infiltrating your brain. You have to consistently work to read inspirational books, listen to motivational podcasts, and be intentional about ingesting positive content. I’m confident that even someone like Cici can rewire and reframe her mindset by following the ground rules above. Don’t worry about whether these guidelines work; it would be a catastrophe to not give them a try. #mindset #success #coaching

How to Make a Difference by Overcoming Fear of Failure! Sometimes we are afraid to do something new because we do not want to fail or be criticized. But if we want to make a positive difference, we need to overcome our fear of failure. Here are some ways to overcome fear and make a difference: 1️⃣ Find something you are passionate about. 2️⃣ Learn about the issue or cause. 3️⃣ Talk to people who feel the same way. 4️⃣ Start small and take action. If you want to make a difference, do not let fear stop you. ▶ Start by finding something you care about and learning more about it. ▶ Talk to people who share your passion and start doing something small to make a difference. Over time, you will feel more confident and may be able to make an even greater impact. ⚠ Don't let fear hold you back. ✔ Choose one thing you care about and take a small step to make a difference today. #OvercomingFear #MakingADifference #TakeAction #Confidence

Here's your Monday Reminder. You have more power than you think. Are you ready to make that shift? Drop a #YES below if you are!

Thoughts for a Monday

Helllllooo There!! 👋 I wanna give a BIG MONDAY Shoutout to those bravely navigating therapy, leadership programs, masterminds, spiritual awakening journeys and doing all- the-thingz! Another shout out to all my LinkedIn family that's ending to their temperament, nurturing their inner child, and refining your character in big- big ways. Here's the thing... Self-development is far from a walk in the park... Personal growth journeys can feel like pushing TWO boulders up a hill. (So can Culture work but that's a different topic for another day, okay?!🤣) Healing chapters in our lives can completely drain us to the core - despite their contribution to our lives. And yet, here you are, showing up in your daily roles, wearing all-the- hats, weathering these storms and giving Grace! So here's a mindful moment of recognition from me to you: I see your struggles, I feel your weariness, and I acknowledge your fierce resilience. Take a deep breath....and sit with the joy of your efforts and worth. May you start this week with the renewed energy to keep pushing forward, because the world awaits the incredible person you're becoming. Happy Monday!! . . . . . . . . #deekendrix #mondaymotivation #growth #consciousliving #consciousleadership #Healing #personaldevelopment #professionaldevelopment