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Spotting domestic abuse in your life can be incredibly difficult particularly if you’ve lived with it as a child. Read Lisa's story below... “ You’re useless and you’ll never amount to anything…” My Dad. My Dad was emotionally and psychologically abusive to my mum, myself and my sister but because he was aggressive but never physically violent we didn’t label it as abuse. Instead we often felt we were to blame because we were just not good enough, fast enough, clever enough, quiet enough to meet his needs. Despite not having contact with him for more than 25 years, the fear and shame of not being good enough has followed me into my adult life. Up until I started to work on Get Out Get Love, I didn’t realise how much the abuse and the coping mechanisms I developed to deal with it were still affecting my confidence, self-concept and limiting my ambitions. Working with Get Out Get Love and doing the programme myself has helped me begin to address this. It’s been a long road to realisation, and I have only just started my personal recovery journey, but I wanted to say there is hope, you can remove the impact of abuse from your life. The first step is to NOTICE and NAME it. We built a free relationship assessment tool to help you do this, you’ll find it on our home page: https://lnkd.in/e8P9iH5B #domesticabuser #domesticabuserecovery

🎥🔍 Just Launched: "6 Signs of Emotional Abuse" Video! Watch, Like, Share, and Subscribe! 🌟 Dear LinkedIn Community, I am thrilled to announce the release of my latest YouTube video, "Ready To Break Free From Emotional Abuse?” This topic addresses an issue that unfortunately affects far too many individuals in our communities. Emotional abuse is insidious, often hiding in plain sight. By understanding the signs, we can take proactive steps towards creating safer, healthier relationships. This video aims to empower both survivors and allies with the knowledge they need to identify and address emotional abuse effectively. 👉https://lnkd.in/dBRZtc2h I invite you to join me in spreading awareness on this critical issue. Your support can make a significant impact. Take a moment to watch, like, share, and subscribe. Together, we can create a community that stands united against all forms of abuse. 🌟 Every view, like, and share sends a powerful message: we are committed to creating a world where everyone feels safe and supported. #EmotionalAbuseAwareness #SupportSurvivors #SpeakUpAgainstAbuse #TogetherWeCanMakeADifference #linkedincommunity

You deserve to have your trauma recognised and validated. You owe it to yourself to define your pain on your own terms. I invite you to share your story with me. If you were hurt, scared, uncomfortable, or made to feel unworthy, I see you, I hear you, and I acknowledge your pain. Abuse can take many forms, and every story deserves to be heard. By sharing your experiences, you can help break the silence and inspire others to do the same. If you have faced any form of abuse — be it physical, emotional, psychological, financial, or technological — your story can make a difference. Together, we can create a supportive community that stands against abuse and advocates for justice and healing. Your courage can empower others and contribute to a broader understanding of the realities of abuse. Let’s use our voices to foster a world where abuse is recognized, confronted, and eradicated. Share your story today. P.S. I will not use your story publicly unless I have your written permission. #BreakTheSilence #EndAbuse #SurvivorStories #NameTheAbuse #SupportSurvivors #SpeakUp #AwarenessMatters #EmpowerSurvivors #HealingJourney #BeTheChange

🔴 Title: Distraught mother shares heartbreaking tragedy that unfolded after son, 17, took just 'a few puffs' of weed - Daily Mail 🔴 Post copy: I was deeply saddened to read this heart-wrenching story. It's a reminder of the potential risks associated with substance use and the impact it can have on young lives. As a community, we must work to educate and support our youth to make safe and informed decisions. Let's come together to advocate for better awareness around substance abuse and provide resources for those in need. It's crucial to have open and honest conversations with our youth to prevent such devastating outcomes. Read the full story for more insight into the challenges young people may face and how we can contribute to a safer environment for them. #SubstanceAbuseAwareness #YouthRisk #PreventTragedy https://ift.tt/4tP5cFf

FINDING STRENGTH AFTER ABUSE: ANDREA WEHLANN'S  UPLIFTING STORY Welcome to this powerful and heartfelt interview: Finding Strength After Abuse: Andrea Wehlann's Uplifting Story In this profoundly moving and inspiring video interview, we delve into Andrea Wehlann's incredible journey of resilience and hope as she courageously shares her story of overcoming childhood abuse. Andrea's story is a testament to the indomitable human spirit, showing that even in the darkest of times, there can be a path to healing and empowerment. Through her words, Andrea Wehlann unveils the painful experiences she endured, including childhood mental and physical abuse, emotional trauma, sexual assault, and heartbreaking miscarriages. Yet, her story isn't just one of tragedy; it's a story of triumph. With unwavering strength, she found the inner resources to heal, to transform her pain into power, and to reclaim her life. As Andrea shares her experiences and the lessons she's learned, you'll discover a wellspring of inspiration and hope. Her story is a beacon of light for others who have faced or are currently enduring similar challenges. It's a powerful reminder that healing and transformation are possible. Join us in this remarkable conversation with Andrea Wehlann and find the strength, resilience, and hope that can arise from the darkest corners of life. https://lnkd.in/dDrUnRWg

🌟 There's Light Beyond the Darkness 🌟 Battling substance abuse can feel like an uphill journey, but remember, you're not alone. At Harbor Hall, we stand ready to guide, support, and empower you toward a brighter, sober tomorrow. If you or a loved one needs a hand to hold during this challenging time, reach out. 👉 Your new chapter awaits at harborhall.com. #HarborHall #SeekHelp #BrighterTomorrow #RecoveryJourney #YouAreNotAlone 🌈❤️ #HarborHall #SeekHelp #BrighterTomorrow #RecoveryJourney #YouAreNotAlone

Healing Through Reflection. It's never easy to revisit the painful moments you have experienced, but healing begins with acknowledging our experiences. Journaling can be a great way to cope and provides a safe space to process your emotions. Here are 3 journal prompts to guide you toward healing: 1️⃣ How has the trauma shaped your thoughts and beliefs about yourself and the world around you? 2️⃣ How have you coped with your emotions? Have you found healthy outlets for them? 3️⃣ How have you taken steps to regain control over your life and break free from the hold of the abuser? Remember, you are not alone. If you or someone you know may be impacted by domestic/intimate partner violence, rape/sexual assault, child abuse, or human trafficking call our 24-hour hotline: (516) 542-0404. #humantrafficking #emotionalabuse #journalpromptsformindset #stopsexualabuse #journalprompts #domesticviolencesurvivor #EndChildAbuse #journalpromptsforhealing #humantraffickingsurvivor #journalpromptsforselflove

DVAM 2023: #Every1KnowsSome1 It is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. As the hashtag reads, unfortunately we will know someone who has experienced or is experiencing some form of domestic abuse. It is more than just physical, it can be mental abuse too. Let's help to raise awareness this month (and every month) to help those who may be too afraid to speak out still, help those who have braved escaping their situation. Let's show all those who have or are still affected by domestic abuse, that the legal sector is there to support them. Be there for someone who is struggling today and tomorrow, be their light to a happier and safer future. DVAM 2023: #Every1KnowsSome1

🌿 Self-care is an essential part of healing. In this post, we'll explore self-care practices that nurture your well-being as a survivor and support your path to recovery. Healing from the trauma of domestic violence can be challenging. You may experience feelings of fear, numbness or other upsetting and traumatic emotions. During National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I want you to remember that you are not alone. Through counseling and support groups for domestic violence survivors, you can begin on a healing journey. To get a copy of my book that dispels the myths and stereotypes about domestic violence and helps the reader to have a stronger understanding of the dynamics of this issue simplistically, click here: https://buff.ly/3EYFiuh Schedule your session with Dr Laura here: https://buff.ly/2Va1qe6 #drlaura #drlauracounseling #wifebeatershirtoptional #domesticviolence # #DVSurvivor #SupportSurvivors #EmpowerSurvivors #DVSupportNetwork #DomesticViolenceResources#SurvivorSupport #DVAM #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #SelfCare #HealingJourney

Dads, you're being alienated and every ounce of you and evidence tells you it's over .. that you've lost your child. The grief can be - is - immense .. seemingly unmanageable at times .. you must manage it, and you can. Look at the image. Through the distortion, what can you see? This domestic abuse on you is designed to break and erase you. The child psychological abuse on your child is designed to distort the image to a point where they no longer look at it. But look closer at the picture. What can you see? You will ALWAYS be 'dad'. And what will you do with that fact? This image is distorted .. but look closely? What do you see? Take a few steps back .. notice it becomes clearer. Remember this.