People with development disabilities, like Autism, are seven times more likely to encounter police than neurotypical people.* Reading this makes me sad not only as a person but as a mother to a child with Autism.
A mother this evening was slapped by her child (11 or 12 years of age and just as tall as the mother). It was clear to me the child has a disability. But, police were called by spectators. The mother was embarrassed by the interaction with her child and she repeatedly stated she was fine and was just quickly trying to get them both home safely.
I polled a special needs parenting group that I am in, as this whole altercation has been unsettling for me to digest. I was told that I, as a special needs parent, I need to equip myself with all the necessary documents showcasing my sons Autism diagnosis in the event police are ever called on us in public. Additionally, I was told I need to introduce my child to police officials and make them aware of his diagnosis so they are informed for any possible future interactions. This makes me sad.
I ask of you all to please educate yourself on how to deal with these situations should you ever encounter them, and I hope you don't. But, if you do, I hope that you can provide understanding and a means for those in the situation to feel comfortable and not judged. I hope you are able to help be their voice when it can be so difficult for them to find theirs during this experience.
I now need to equip myself with proof of my sons diagnosis, to educate officials in my community, to have advocates on speed dial to help explain my sons condition should this ever happen to me. This makes me sad, BUT, I will continue to advocate, educate and provide a supportive, loving and understanding environment for my son and others.
#autismawareness #autismmom
*Reference The Marshall Project
Autism Speaks and partnering organizations are commendably advocating against a legislative loophole that could permit continued use of ESDs, highlighting their commitment to safeguarding individuals with disabilities from potential harm. well done