Organizational psychologist at Wharton, #1 NYT bestselling author of HIDDEN POTENTIAL and THINK AGAIN, and host of the TED podcasts WorkLife and Re:Thinking
When receiving tough feedback, it’s easy to get defensive. The best way to prove yourself is to show that you’re willing to improve yourself.
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Before starting a conversation where I'm asked to provide feedback, I like to preemptively level-set the expectations. I'll ask, "What kind of feedback do you want, and how detailed should I be?" Assuming you're not simply a jerk in how it's presented, this dramatically reduces the likelihood of the person taking offense. When they know you tailored your feedback to what they specifically requested, they tend to be much more receptive to hearing it.
This is very well said. I try to be objective when providing feedback to others, especially in a workplace setting. However, I've noticed that some higher-level managers or supervisors will sometimes give very subjective feedback, such as "I've been there before, and I know this approach won't work - you should do X, Y, and Z instead." and turned down others' opinions completely. What advice would you have for dealing with this type of subjective and tough commentary from superiors? How can one navigate these types of situations professionally and constructively?
Prove yourself by improving yourself. Love it.
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Love this, when I was 14 or 15 years old I played basketball with a team at the church my family attended. I loved playing basketball. At the end of the season I received an award for the most improved player. I was so happy and proud. Sounds a little naive because life is so competitive. Too competitive, winning is not everything.
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