What Is Your More? We all want more of something. Maybe it is more money, or more time at home. Perhaps it is more ability to do something that you enjoy. Could it possibly be more balance in your life or your schedule. Or is it more of a feeling, like love, or compassion that you want more of in your life. We all want more of something, but where do we start to move forward into finding that more? Are you able to identify a single item to have more of, or do you feel like you want more of everything? I am no expert, but I think that if you can identify one item you want more of you can lay out a map on how to get to that more. Let's say you want to earn more money, that is what your gut is telling you. How do you get what you seek? Could it be a promotion within your organization? If so, how do you prepare yourself to take that next step and get promoted or given more responsibility that comes with the more that you seek. Do you need additional education or training? That is on you to find it and learn it. Do you need other soft skills to acquire the necessary knowledge to perform at the next level? That too is on you to invest your time and energy to internalize those attributes. You are going to have to give to receive. What if your more is love, how can you get more of that, as that generally comes from outside of yourself. Or does it? Are you giving love? And giving it in the way that those you seek to receive it from, are receiving it from you in the way they want it? There are books and podcasts that can help open your mind on how to listen better, and share, and gain a greater understanding of how to really know someone on a deep and interpersonal level. Again, you are going to have to give to receive. Do you want more from your industry? Bored with your role or the general trajectory of the business? Here again you are going to have to give to receive. Next week we can look to unpack a few ways to give in order to receive more. And that more, might be able to check a couple of items off your list! Let's find your more, and then work to acquire it! Again, the more you know.
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Lessons from 2023 that I’m taking into 2024: 𝟭. 𝙈𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 - This one is self-explanatory. Stay in your lane! 𝟮. 𝙏𝙝𝙚 “𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢” 𝙥𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙥𝙡𝙚 - Some folks think 2+2 is 18, let them! “The sky is green”…great, let that be their experience. People are allowed to have their own experiences, feel the consequences from their actions and make choices we don’t understand or agree with - let them! 𝟯. “𝘾𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮,” 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙨𝙚, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙚 𝙖 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙥 - If we’re honest, lack of clarity can be just as clear as the clarity we say we’re seeking. Figure out what you actually need to move forward and pursue that imperfectly. 𝟰. 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛-𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙮𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙮 - No matter what they say or how they frame it, you can always choose yourself. There may be consequences for that, and, it’s always an option. 𝟱. 𝙏𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝 𝙬𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 - You might get in trouble with other people, but not with you. Why would you rather disappoint yourself time after time? 𝟲. 𝙂𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨 - Be it validation, love, respect, etc. Acknowledging yourself to yourself can be the greatest gift you ever give. 𝟳. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙮 - One guarantee in this life is that the longest relationship we’ll have with a human being is the one we have with ourselves. Why not make it a love story? If your story has been one of neglect up until this point, you can turn that around starting now. 𝟴. 𝘼𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙖𝙨𝙠 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙡𝙮 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 - When you don’t know what to do, get back to The Basics. Ask others how you’ve impacted them and do more of that. Channel your lineage to address the inheritance they left you. We got work to do! Thank you for being a part of my journey this year. I look forward to seeing what unfolds in 2024.
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Lessons from 2023 that I’m taking into 2024: 𝟭. 𝙈𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 - This one is self-explanatory. Stay in your lane! 𝟮. 𝙏𝙝𝙚 “𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢” 𝙥𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙥𝙡𝙚 - Some folks think 2+2 is 18, let them! “The sky is green”…great, let that be their experience. People are allowed to have their own experiences, feel the consequences from their actions and make choices we don’t understand or agree with - let them! 𝟯. “𝘾𝙡𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙮,” 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙨𝙚, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙚 𝙖 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙥 - If we’re honest, lack of clarity can be just as clear as the clarity we say we’re seeking. Figure out what you actually need to move forward and pursue that imperfectly. 𝟰. 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛-𝙗𝙚𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙮𝙖𝙡 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙮 - No matter what they say or how they frame it, you can always choose yourself. There may be consequences for that, and, it’s always an option. 𝟱. 𝙏𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝 𝙬𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 - You might get in trouble with other people, but not with you. Why would you rather disappoint yourself time after time? 𝟲. 𝙂𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙠 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙨 - Be it validation, love, respect, etc. Acknowledging yourself to yourself can be the greatest gift you ever give. 𝟳. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙮 - One guarantee in this life is that the longest relationship we’ll have with a human being is the one we have with ourselves. Why not make it a love story? If your story has been one of neglect up until this point, you can turn that around starting now. 𝟴. 𝘼𝙡𝙬𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙖𝙨𝙠 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙦𝙪𝙚𝙡𝙮 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 - When you don’t know what to do, get back to The Basics. Ask others how you’ve impacted them and do more of that. Channel your lineage to address the inheritance they left you. We got work to do! Thank you for being a part of my journey this year. I look forward to seeing what unfolds in 2024.
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D.I.Y / D.Y.L.I / D.W.Y.L --------------------- Often we get caught in 'D.I.Y' mode, great if you know what you are doing, BUT... Should we first ask ourselves, 'D.Y.L.I' or Do you love it ? You see when you take inspired action doing something you have a passion for the results are often much better. vs Doing it yourself which often costs allot more than you save in time, money & results. So before you D.I.Y, maybe try to find someone who can answer yes to D.Y.L.I and engage their help whilst you focus on doing what you love, ( D.W.Y.L ) Just a thought : )
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My Love Affair with the Journey, Not the Goal Ever found yourself so obsessed with a goal that you missed out on the joy of getting there? Guilty as charged. At Course Ventures, we’ve learned a lesson or two about this love affair. Here’s the thing: falling in love with your goals is like binge-watching your favorite show. It’s exhilarating but over in a flash. The journey, however? That’s the epic saga, full of twists, turns, and invaluable lessons. We’ve navigated the wild waters of partnering with experts and creating online education programs, and here’s the golden nugget: the beauty lies in the journey. It’s in the late-night brainstorming sessions, the triumphant high-fives when a module comes together, and even in the coffee-fueled revisions. Falling in love with the process has taught us resilience, creativity, and the sheer joy of crafting something meaningful. It’s not just about the destination; it’s about the adventures, the growth, and the camaraderie along the way. So, from us to you: ditch the infatuation with the end goal. Embrace the journey. Trust us, it’s where the real magic happens.
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By popular demand...the deadline for LOVE NOTES has been EXTENDED! If you thought (sincerely) about entering ...then got distracted (um, life), then thought about it again and worried that it was too late ...well, it's (definitely) not. Procrastination (life) has worked for you again, friend! LOVE NOTES From the Soul is gaining traction and reaching a tipping point at the intersection of amazing and audacious! You have (literally) nothing to lose by sharing the mystical, magical story of your modern hero's journey. What did you discover in the wide world (or at the farm)? What wisdom did your heroic journey gift you? That's what LOVE NOTES is *all about. Three little pages. That's all that's required. Tell your real-life story in a (compelling) storytelling way with a beginning, middle, and (soul-satisfying) end. In just three little pages. Authors will be invited to an online launch with readings, giveaways, promotions, and more. Fun! IM if you want to explore. Find more information at https://bit.ly/3CO2CtL
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When did you last write a love letter? How did it make you feel? How did it make the person who received it feel? What about you? When did you last receive a love letter? And how did that make you feel? In these days of escalating postal costs, emails, texts and social media, the chances are that many people never actually sit down to put pen to paper & say how they feel. Yet the power of the written word doesn't change, it is still as strong today as ever, maybe more so, because of its increasing scarcity. But, what has this to do with you and your business? Why am I telling you this? Simply because one of the most powerful, and impactful steps you can take to push your business to the next level is to pick up pen & paper, and write a love letter to your future clients. Choose somewhere quiet, giving yourself as much time as you need and simply allow your heart to fill the page. Tell them how much you understand about their pain; tell them why you are determined to help them. Be completely honest, allowing your vulnerability to show, and then inspire them with your passion to do everything it takes to help them change their lives too. Take yourself to the place they are now, feel it, describe it, then show them where they will be after working with you, how they will feel, and what they will be able to achieve. Then put your love letter somewhere safe, somewhere you can read it and reread it whenever you need to. This one simple act will power your business forward like no other. It will re-energise, inspire, motivate and empower you to take hold of your own future, to lead the direction of your business, and to revolutionise your marketing so it engages directly with the people who need you now. Don't wait, take the time you need as soon as you can, you won't regret it, and who knows, it may give you the push you need to write the book that's waiting inside you....... let me know how you get on, I'd love to find out. #love #loveyourclient #empowerment #inspiration #succeedfromthestart #angelaroth
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When did you last write a love letter? How did it make you feel? How did it make the person who received it feel? What about you? When did you last receive a love letter? And how did that make you feel? In these days of escalating postal costs, emails, texts and social media, the chances are that many people never actually sit down to put pen to paper & say how they feel. Yet the power of the written word doesn't change, it is still as strong today as ever, maybe more so, because of its increasing scarcity. But, what has this to do with you and your business? Why am I telling you this? Simply because one of the most powerful, and impactful steps you can take to push your business to the next level is to pick up pen & paper, and write a love letter to your future clients. Choose somewhere quiet, giving yourself as much time as you need and simply allow your heart to fill the page. Tell them how much you understand about their pain; tell them why you are determined to help them. Be completely honest, allowing your vulnerability to show, and then inspire them with your passion to do everything it takes to help them change their lives too. Take yourself to the place they are now, feel it, describe it, then show them where they will be after working with you, how they will feel, and what they will be able to achieve. Then put your love letter somewhere safe, somewhere you can read it and reread it whenever you need to. This one simple act will power your business forward like no other. It will re-energise, inspire, motivate and empower you to take hold of your own future, to lead the direction of your business, and to revolutionise your marketing so it engages directly with the people who need you now. Don't wait, take the time you need as soon as you can, you won't regret it, and who knows, it may give you the push you need to write the book that's waiting inside you....... let me know how you get on, I'd love to find out. #love #loveyourclient #empowerment #inspiration #succeedfromthestart #angelaroth
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WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE FAMOUS FOR? A question we often ask our clients. But it’s not as simple as ‘that thing you do for a living’. It’s not even your special skill or niche as a business. It goes much deeper than that! Don’t get me wrong, what you do and how you do it is a contributing factor. But what’s more important is why you do it and how it affects others. THAT’S the thing people will remember. And, if you help enough people and businesses be better versions of themselves along the way. That’s what’ll be talked fondly about every time your name comes up. But you have to believe in what you do and be absolutely committed to the reasons why ‘your thing’ will change hearts and minds. That’s the easy bit right? Love what you do.. etc?! The hard bit is figuring out how you condense all that love, passion, expertise, experience, craft and knowledge into a narrative that people will be able to understand in a few simple sentences! Your welcome..
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🥳🥳 IT'S HERE ⬇️⬇️ You want more money, more love, more clients, more success, more recognition..? Then, you must learn how to increase your energetic capacity to HOLD more A question I often get asked is: How to I stretch my nervous system capacity to receive more? So that really big cash days become the norm… So when too good to be true love stories happen to me I don’t run… So that when a large influx of clients arrive I do not shut down… So that I let it be good, let it get better, let it always be amazing! This is what I am going to answer, in a few days, in my brand new *and free* transmission… *.* The Energetic Capacity *.* I want to help you shift your capacity to expansion Register now in order to be invited to the live event, and receive the replay (available for 72 hours) https://lnkd.in/g9pNqNSk
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I shared my 1st personal story post, 780+ people joined & gave me this, →Unconditional love. →Unconditional love. →And unconditional love. What I found to be more magical, you know? Each one of them: →Related more. →Connected much more. →Commented their heart out. →Shared their own stories in DM. I also got: →250+ followers in 1 day. →50,000+ impressions from 1 post. →5 offers & leads by just being myself. And no, I am not writing this post to show off the: →Numbers →Followers →Impressions What I am only intended to show you here is: The power of "you factor" in a post. It's not the: →Numbers →Tips/Strategies →Beautiful designs That showed who I am. Or represented my true nature. It was my: →Simple →Honest →Straight Confession. My real life story, that did. If your struggle is: →Connecting with people. →Relating with them. →Strengthen trust. Then, no matter what you do, No matter where are you from, No matter which industry you work in, →Own Your Truth. Tell your life's story that you're comfortable with. It's not an advice from a personal branding guru. Neither a lecture from some influencer. This post is simply a revelation from your stranger friend who want to help you grow here. And more and more. P.S. Do you feel confident sharing your story?
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