From the course: Small Talk for Non-Native English Speakers

The importance of small talk in business

- Small talk. The name makes it seem, well, small and unimportant. Many people dread small talk and think it's a waste of time. However, small talk has the potential to make a big impact. And in many countries around the world, it's just part of doing business. Small talk is an opportunity to make a quick connection with someone, to get to know something about them, and to open the door to a deeper and more meaningful conversation. A seemingly unimportant chat with someone can help you understand their communication style and give you some insight into their personality. At the very least, this type of interaction can be a nice way to pass the time when circumstances put you in the same place with someone. At the most, though, it can lead to job offers, strategic partnerships, or valuable business deals. In business culture, deals, opportunities, and work collaborations often rely heavily on personal connections. People prefer to do business with people they feel they can trust and whom they are able to talk to. Making small talk is a way to create those connections and to demonstrate that you can be trusted. It gives you the chance to share some information about yourself and show the other person a little bit of who you are, but without revealing too much. It's a chance to make a good first impression, and for the person you're talking with, to become interested in knowing more about you. It's also an opportunity to show that you know how to listen, that you're able to express yourself well, and that you can think on your feet. In a business setting, demonstrating all of this can be extremely valuable. If you can make a good enough impression, you can set the stage for further contact and potential collaborations in the future. Because of all this, in business culture, making small talk about general or unimportant topics is expected in many situations. For example, in some countries, networking events and receptions are extremely popular. In some industries, they are even considered necessary to succeed in business. Small talk is a crucial part of these events. However, networking receptions are not the only time small talk is expected. At conferences, industry events, and in the minutes before and after a meeting, people tend to expect to engage in small talk. This is not because the typical small talk topics are particularly interesting, but because talking about these unimportant topics is a way to make connections, to develop trust, and to open the door to deeper relationships. So always remember that even if normal small talk topics don't seem to be all that important, the goal is to get to know people and for them to get to know you. The focus isn't the topics themselves, but the connections you make while discussing them. And in that sense, small talk makes a big difference.

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