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I was offered a VP job with 10 days of PTO, non-negotiable. TEN DAYS. That includes sick and vacation time. When I tried to negotiate, I was told they are a public company so they couldn't offer different PTO options (umm.. I've worked for 3 public companies; PTO is ALWAYS negotiable). When I asked if I could get in writing that I could take 1-2 more weeks of unpaid PTO, I was told no. The CEO also told me during my interview that she wished they had better work/life balance, and she knows it's hard (for working moms like me, but it’s hard for eveyone!) but that's just not how the company works right now. I should have stopped right there and ended the interview. The hiring manager assured me she is flexible with time, but I learned long ago if it's not in writing, it's not real. The best part? The agency recruiter who I was working with told me she needed an answer the same day the offer was made. I told her I wanted to negotiate the PTO. She told me I likely couldn't. The pressure was real. Women often struggle the most with knowing our worth and how to negotiate effectively. But every person — man or woman should. Whether they say yes or no, always know what you're worth. Always know what matters most to you. And ALWAYS ASK FOR IT. Even in a tough job market, don't undervalue yourself (but be reasonable). Know what your non-negotiables are. Remember, most things are negotiable but the answer is ALWAYS no if you don't ask. Be a good human #negotiations #workingmom #PTO #worklifeharmony

Sleep, lift, move, smile, laugh, listen. Read, save, hydrate, fast, build, create. Your habits are your future. Did this resonate with you?? If so like this post 💥

COACH PRIME reveals ALL including his battles with suicide, depression, life-threatening diagnoses, and his fight for survival! CLICK HERE TO WATCH/LISTEN!!! https://konect.to/edmylett Coach Prime's Success Game Plan - w @deionsanders He was the biggest story in the @NCAA college football this past season, but “COACH PRIME” aka DEION SANDERS has been making headlines in the sports world for almost 40 years! Known for his electrifying presence in both the @NFL and @MLB winning both a SUPERBOWL and WORLD SERIES championships, Deion's journey from NEON DEION and PRIME TIME to a transformational figure, COACH PRIME, in college football and beyond is nothing short of legendary. Yet, behind the dazzling highlights and cultural icon status, Deion's story is one of profound resilience, faith, and a relentless pursuit of greatness not just on the field, but in all facets of life. In this episode, I dive deep into his transition from a celebrated athlete to a visionary coach and mentor, his battles against formidable personal challenges, and his unwavering commitment to uplift and inspire including: The Fight for Survival: An open and honest discussion about Deion's darkest moments, including his attempt at suicide, and how these experiences led to his greatest comeback in life. Navigating Adversity through Deion's harrowing battle with life-threatening blood clots, facing nine surgeries and an amputation, and how his unshakeable faith not only guided him through his recovery but also reshaped his approach to life and coaching. The Power of Pain: Understanding the necessity of playing through pain, whether it's physical, emotional, or spiritual, and how these challenges forge unbreakable strength and character. Cultivating Peace: The daily habits and routines that form the cornerstone of Deion’s peace and how preparation breeds the confidence required to succeed under pressure. Chasing Your Rabbit: Identifying your driving force – your "rabbit" – that propels you forward in pursuit of your goals and dreams. Deion Sanders' journey is a testament to the idea that our greatest trials often lead to our most triumphant victories. This isn't just an episode for sports fans; it's for anyone seeking to elevate and dominate their own lives against the odds. Join me as Coach Prime lays down the playbook for a life filled with purpose, passion, and prime time moments.

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I'm 52 and I'm WORKING HARDER than I ever have in my life. Seriously… I don’t talk about it much… because I believe just do the work and shut up . Let the work speak for itself. But the more I’m watching all these post on social media about lifestyle… I feel like I need to speak the truth and bring people back to reality. It was common to talk about Hustling a few years ago… After the Pandemic, it’s somehow disappeared from social media. Don't be satisfied with just the crumbs that others have left behind. Don't settle for mediocrity. Listen to me! You wanna win? The most certain way to do that, is just outwork everyone …. PERIOD. Be the one who creates opportunities, who makes things happen, who leaves a LEGACY of hard work and relentless effort. Don't wait for success to come knocking on your door, KICK THAT DOOR DOWN with your EFFORT You were put on this earth for more than that. You were put on this earth to do something GREAT!!! But you must go out and FIGHT for what you truly want in life. Put yourself in the game and COMPETE with every tool at your disposal. PLAY THE GAME HARD. The sooner you learn that lesson, the sooner you’ll leave leftover scraps at the dinner table for those who haven’t figured it out yet.

T.S. Eliot: "Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go." I think one could say that this quote is now my daily mantra. Waking up in war and going to sleep in war. Definitely out of my comfort zone. It's daily work to push through fear. To keep going. To be there for the family and continue to be the rock. To truly believe and hope for a better future. But the quote is true, how do we know how far we can be pushed if we don't take risks? If we live a risk free life, are we actually living? Are we missing out on creating a life we love? Nothing great ever came easy. Let's all remember this today as we feel the fear and do it anyway. #natalieherman #feelthefeardoitanyway #mindset #courage #journey #comfortzone vc: social media

Listen to Arnold: He hates Plan B. So do I. We tell ourselves it’s prudent to conjure a backup plan at the exact moment our conviction waivers. But the creation of a backup plan is the very thing that causes you to need one. Why? Because the real reason we create a backup plan is to alleviate the psychological discomfort of wanting something so bad it hurts. But it’s the pain of pursuit that propels us to pull of the most improbable goals. I wrote Burn the Boats to breakdown the history, science and psychology behind total commitment and the metaphorical boats that beckon us to retreat. And in a full circle moment, Arnold had this to say about my book: “I hate Plan B. I always tell people that to achieve big dreams, you have to ignore the naysayers, but the naysayers are external. Once you have a Plan B, you become your own naysayer. Big dreams require relentless focus, and any time we spend planning for failure sets us up for failure. When Matt told me, I inspired him, I was really touched. But the best part is inspiration is contagious and now Matt can inspire you with this book. Enjoy it. When you finish reading I can’t wait to hear about who you inspire.” Life is truly wonderful. Link to Burn the Boats in comment 🔥⛵️.

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