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From the award-winning author of George, the story of a boy named Rick who needs to explore his own identity apart from his jerk of a best friend.
Rick's never questioned much. He's gone along with his best friend Jeff even when Jeff's acted like a bully and a jerk. He's let his father joke with him about which hot girls he might want to date even though that kind of talk always makes him uncomfortable. And he hasn't given his own identity much thought, because everyone else around him seemed to have figured it out.
But now Rick's gotten to middle school, and new doors are opening. One of them leads to the school's Rainbow Spectrum club, where kids of many genders and identities congregate, including Melissa, the girl who sits in front of Rick in class and seems to have her life together. Rick wants his own life to be that ... understood. Even if it means breaking some old friendships and making some new ones.
As they did in their groundbreaking novel George, in Rick, award-winning author Alex Gino explores what it means to search for your own place in the world ... and all the steps you and the people around you need to take in order to get where you need to be.
Rick's never questioned much. He's gone along with his best friend Jeff even when Jeff's acted like a bully and a jerk. He's let his father joke with him about which hot girls he might want to date even though that kind of talk always makes him uncomfortable. And he hasn't given his own identity much thought, because everyone else around him seemed to have figured it out.
But now Rick's gotten to middle school, and new doors are opening. One of them leads to the school's Rainbow Spectrum club, where kids of many genders and identities congregate, including Melissa, the girl who sits in front of Rick in class and seems to have her life together. Rick wants his own life to be that ... understood. Even if it means breaking some old friendships and making some new ones.
As they did in their groundbreaking novel George, in Rick, award-winning author Alex Gino explores what it means to search for your own place in the world ... and all the steps you and the people around you need to take in order to get where you need to be.
240 pages, Hardcover
First published April 21, 2020
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Alex Gino
11 books934 followersAlex Gino loves glitter, ice cream, gardening, awe-ful puns, and stories that reflect the diversity and complexity of being alive.
Gino is genderqueer and uses singular they pronouns and the honorific Mx.
Gino is genderqueer and uses singular they pronouns and the honorific Mx.
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June 1, 2021
Otra bonita historia sobre el autodescubrimiento.
Alex Gino es une autore que tiene una forma especial de acercar la realidad plural y diversa a las personas más pequeñas. Este libro, al igual que su reconocido George son libros pensados para leer con unos 10-12 años, y el trabajo que hace Alex para que las ideas calen de una forma sencilla es increíble.
En Rick tenemos una historia sobre la asexualidad. Porque ¿qué es Rick? ¿Si su amigo le dice que una chica está buena, por qué el no siente nada? Acaba de entrar en el instituto, tiene la edad en la que los primeros amores comienzan a suceder y las hormonas florecen, pero no para Rick. ¿Es raro? ¿Qué narices le pasa?
Esta novela no solo nos lleva de la mano del autodescubrimiento del personaje principal por su sexualidad, sino que además nos introduce debates como el uso del género neutro, las personas no binarias o la importancia de las personas mayores. Tiene de todo, pero no abruma, todo a su debido tiempo y narrado como debe ser narrado: con cariño. Además, aparece Melissa, la protagonista de George, la cual genera debates entorno a las realidades trans.
Si queréis algo sencillo de leer pero que os emocionará, Rick es una muy buena novela para ello. Creo que debería ser lectura obligatoria en escuelas, ayudando así a miles de niñxs a conocerse mejor y saber que no están solxs. El libro además tiene citas y frases muy potentes que me pusieron los pelos como escarpias. De nuevo, un muy buen trabajo de Alex Gino, sin duda en camino de ser une referente del género.
Alex Gino es une autore que tiene una forma especial de acercar la realidad plural y diversa a las personas más pequeñas. Este libro, al igual que su reconocido George son libros pensados para leer con unos 10-12 años, y el trabajo que hace Alex para que las ideas calen de una forma sencilla es increíble.
En Rick tenemos una historia sobre la asexualidad. Porque ¿qué es Rick? ¿Si su amigo le dice que una chica está buena, por qué el no siente nada? Acaba de entrar en el instituto, tiene la edad en la que los primeros amores comienzan a suceder y las hormonas florecen, pero no para Rick. ¿Es raro? ¿Qué narices le pasa?
Esta novela no solo nos lleva de la mano del autodescubrimiento del personaje principal por su sexualidad, sino que además nos introduce debates como el uso del género neutro, las personas no binarias o la importancia de las personas mayores. Tiene de todo, pero no abruma, todo a su debido tiempo y narrado como debe ser narrado: con cariño. Además, aparece Melissa, la protagonista de George, la cual genera debates entorno a las realidades trans.
Si queréis algo sencillo de leer pero que os emocionará, Rick es una muy buena novela para ello. Creo que debería ser lectura obligatoria en escuelas, ayudando así a miles de niñxs a conocerse mejor y saber que no están solxs. El libro además tiene citas y frases muy potentes que me pusieron los pelos como escarpias. De nuevo, un muy buen trabajo de Alex Gino, sin duda en camino de ser une referente del género.
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May 24, 2020
July 10, 2022
This is a very sweet book! I’m a huge fan of Gino’s book MELISSA and have been highly anticipating this companion novel.
I love that this is a book for middle grade kids that calmly and compassionately teaches them about the LGBTQIAP+ community. As an educational tool, this will be so useful to middle schoolers and hopefully to educators as well when it comes to asexuality, as well as nonbinary folks and pronouns.
At the same time, I felt like this book was too short. There are a few plot threads that don’t have a conclusion in any way, and a lot of things fall into place very quickly in order to reach the conclusion I think the author had in mind. I wish more time could have been dedicated to Jeff as a character and how to navigate a friendship that is toxic. It felt very cut and dry and I think there could have been more complexity with that storyline.
I LOVED Rick’s grandpa and how that relationship was developed - but I think that came at the expense of Rick’s parents and siblings. I felt like I knew very little about them and how they fit into Rick’s life. It was wonderful to see parents in middle grade who were doing their best to normalize queerness at a young age (Rick’s mother always insists on saying it would be normal and ok for him to have attraction to girls or boys) even if they weren’t as a aware of how to accept and nurture a child who identified outside the first couple letters of the LGBTQIAP+ acronym.
However, beyond that there is very little to say about them as parents. Having a loving force in Rick’s life, his grandpa, was lovely I just wanted more. I think this could have been helped by extending the book slightly.
All of this ultimately comes down to the fact that I did enjoy this book! It’s simple and educational and sweet, it just lacked the complexity and charm of MELISSA. I would still highly recommend it as a resource to add to middle school shelves and I really do love how it normalized knowing about sexuality at a young age, and how harmful it can be to dismiss children when they try to tell you who they are. I hope this can be a resource that helps more ace kids recognize see themselves in fiction!
I love that this is a book for middle grade kids that calmly and compassionately teaches them about the LGBTQIAP+ community. As an educational tool, this will be so useful to middle schoolers and hopefully to educators as well when it comes to asexuality, as well as nonbinary folks and pronouns.
At the same time, I felt like this book was too short. There are a few plot threads that don’t have a conclusion in any way, and a lot of things fall into place very quickly in order to reach the conclusion I think the author had in mind. I wish more time could have been dedicated to Jeff as a character and how to navigate a friendship that is toxic. It felt very cut and dry and I think there could have been more complexity with that storyline.
I LOVED Rick’s grandpa and how that relationship was developed - but I think that came at the expense of Rick’s parents and siblings. I felt like I knew very little about them and how they fit into Rick’s life. It was wonderful to see parents in middle grade who were doing their best to normalize queerness at a young age (Rick’s mother always insists on saying it would be normal and ok for him to have attraction to girls or boys) even if they weren’t as a aware of how to accept and nurture a child who identified outside the first couple letters of the LGBTQIAP+ acronym.
However, beyond that there is very little to say about them as parents. Having a loving force in Rick’s life, his grandpa, was lovely I just wanted more. I think this could have been helped by extending the book slightly.
All of this ultimately comes down to the fact that I did enjoy this book! It’s simple and educational and sweet, it just lacked the complexity and charm of MELISSA. I would still highly recommend it as a resource to add to middle school shelves and I really do love how it normalized knowing about sexuality at a young age, and how harmful it can be to dismiss children when they try to tell you who they are. I hope this can be a resource that helps more ace kids recognize see themselves in fiction!
October 20, 2019
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RICK by Alex Gino is a young middle grade novel about a boy named Rick who is just entering middle school and is questioning his sexual identity. His best friend Jeff, who is also a sexist jerk in the process of objectifying young women, is already talking about hot girls, and his parents-- his father especially-- has begun to tease him about paying attention to his peers. But Rick feels uncomfortable when people talk about attraction and doesn't feel that way about anyone, boy or girl. He can't help but feel like maybe something might be wrong with him, until he starts talking with a girl in his class named Melissa, and ends up finding about an LGBT+ alliance group called Spectrum.
There's a lot to unpack in RICK, and for the most part, I think it's a really great book. I haven't read a lot of YA that really tries to speak so frankly about sexuality and orientation, defining terms in a way that a young child can understand, and attempting to be really inclusive and encouraging about that desire to explore your identity, even if said identity might not be cisgendered or romantic. It's got a great message and is accessible.
A big part of this book is Rick struggling to communicate his identity to the people he cares about, while also struggling to hide it because of people like Jeff. There's a major element of cognitive dissonance here; can we really call ourselves good, accepting people if we surround ourselves with bigots and willingly hang out with them despite knowing what they're capable of doing? I say no, and I have gotten into arguments with people about this online who think I'm being cruel for unfriending people who think differently from me-- but I know who I am and what I stand for, and I'm not willing to be friends with or even associate with people who actively discriminate and spread hate, because doing so is kind of a tacit acceptance in and of itself that such behavior is normal. And it shouldn't be.
I liked most of the kids in Spectrum, especially Melissa, and I thought the relationship between Rick and his grandfather, and their conversations about defying gender norms (even if not described as such) were really beautiful. I had a lot of really open and loving conversations with my parents about the importance of acceptance as a kid, so it always makes me really happy to see strong and loving bonds between kids and their guardians in books because it reminds me of my own childhood. I was also happy to see a book discuss what it means to be asexual, and encourage kids to stand up for themselves and who they are, and that you're never too young to know your own mind.
The part where this book fails, in my personal opinion, is that it was written with an agenda clearly in mind. And even though it is a really noble agenda, and an important one, there is a "preachiness" to this book that comes across as almost sanctimonious and really makes you, the reader, feel like you're being sat down and taught a lesson. I realize that this is a delicate area and I might be misunderstood, so I do want to be clear that my problem with this book is not about the content or the author's intent, but that the intent could have been less heavy-handed and more focus could have been on the characters themselves so the reader could reach the same conclusions that the author wanted them to through the narrative and subtext instead of having my hand held and being forcibly led to the point. Given the age of the characters and the intended audience, I understand why the author might have taken on the chiding tone and felt the need to be so pointed-- it is important that kids know about these things-- but as an adult reader, it felt condescending.
Thanks to the publisher for sending me a copy in exchange for an honest review!
3 to 3.5 stars
January 24, 2022
Finished the audiobook with tears in my eyes. This book is so beautiful and so so necessary.
The book follows 11-year-old Rick who starts middle school, and suddenly everyone seems to be getting crushes. Except for him. There's also the issue of his best friend, who's actually really mean. And when he starts spending more time with his grandad, he finds out that they have more in common than he thought, and he gains a lot of support.
I love love LOVE what this book did in telling us (pre)teens can and do know if they're asexual. Because no, not every kid is automatically asexual until they hit puberty. Kids do have crushes. In fact, even though I hadn't realized I was asexual back then, because I didn't have the language to describe how I felt, the years between ages 10 and 15 were some of the most difficult ones in my life because all my peers were getting crushes and talking about kissing and sex, and I felt so different. I couldn't be happier that kids today get to see themselves in books like this.
And this book didn't just tackle asexuality (and aromanticism, because at the end of the book Rick's not yet sure if he's ace, aro or aroace). It was super educational in discussing the entire LGBTQ+ community and explaining terminology and pronoun use.
By the way, the audiobook is narrated by Alex Gino themself, and I would highly recommend it. It's short but sweet and they did a great job.
The book follows 11-year-old Rick who starts middle school, and suddenly everyone seems to be getting crushes. Except for him. There's also the issue of his best friend, who's actually really mean. And when he starts spending more time with his grandad, he finds out that they have more in common than he thought, and he gains a lot of support.
I love love LOVE what this book did in telling us (pre)teens can and do know if they're asexual. Because no, not every kid is automatically asexual until they hit puberty. Kids do have crushes. In fact, even though I hadn't realized I was asexual back then, because I didn't have the language to describe how I felt, the years between ages 10 and 15 were some of the most difficult ones in my life because all my peers were getting crushes and talking about kissing and sex, and I felt so different. I couldn't be happier that kids today get to see themselves in books like this.
And this book didn't just tackle asexuality (and aromanticism, because at the end of the book Rick's not yet sure if he's ace, aro or aroace). It was super educational in discussing the entire LGBTQ+ community and explaining terminology and pronoun use.
By the way, the audiobook is narrated by Alex Gino themself, and I would highly recommend it. It's short but sweet and they did a great job.
August 25, 2022
Listen, I’m gonna give this book 3 stars cause I’m glad the representation exists in a middle grade book. But the book isn’t good. It’s just not.
October 24, 2021
“Think carefully about who you spend time with. The right people? Well, they can bring you great joy.”
“And the wrong people bring sadness?”
Grandpa Ray shook his head. “Not even. Sometimes the right people bring sadness too. The wrong people are the ones who keep you from being yourself.”
↠ 6.86 cawpile | 3.5 stars
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▷ Representation: Rick (mc) asexual & questioning aromantic; Melissa (sc) trans girl; nonbinary, bisexual, queer & bipoc scs.
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April 9, 2020
I found myself smiling from time to time while reading this one because I'm so happy a book like this was not only written but published as well. 20+ years ago when I was in middle school this wouldn't have been the case. Some progress is being made and in a world where we aren't getting much good news lately, let's be thankful for something positive.
Rick is in middle school and Jeff has been his best friend for years. But even Rick can admit Jeff is a bully and can act like a jerk and that's the reason why Rick doesn't tell his friend he is interested in attending meetings of the school's Rainbow Spectrum club. The club provides an opportunity for kids of different genders and identities to get together and have discussions in a safe environment. Rick has never experienced romantic feelings towards a male or female and that is one reason he is open to seeing what the club has to offer.
This is a middle grade book but I do encourage readers of all ages to check this one out. I think the author did a good job explaining what each letter or symbol stands for in LGBTQIAP+ within the story as well as the use of pronouns. The book is informative but in my opinion it doesn't get too bogged down and fits well within the context of the story. And what's great about this book is I walked away actually feeling like I learned a thing or two.
Rick's relationship with his grandfather really enhanced the story and I'm not only talking about the grandfather's backstory although I liked that part as well. I loved how Rick was eventually able to see his grandfather as a person and not just in the role of a grandparent. When you have that light bulb type moment when you realize you truly enjoy spending time with an older relative that's pretty special.
There are so many wonderful things to take away from this book. Anytime an author can drive home the message to kids that it is okay to be who you are, that's a good thing.
I won a free copy of this book in a giveaway by Goodreads and the publisher but was not obligated to post a review. All views expressed are my honest opinion.
Rick is in middle school and Jeff has been his best friend for years. But even Rick can admit Jeff is a bully and can act like a jerk and that's the reason why Rick doesn't tell his friend he is interested in attending meetings of the school's Rainbow Spectrum club. The club provides an opportunity for kids of different genders and identities to get together and have discussions in a safe environment. Rick has never experienced romantic feelings towards a male or female and that is one reason he is open to seeing what the club has to offer.
This is a middle grade book but I do encourage readers of all ages to check this one out. I think the author did a good job explaining what each letter or symbol stands for in LGBTQIAP+ within the story as well as the use of pronouns. The book is informative but in my opinion it doesn't get too bogged down and fits well within the context of the story. And what's great about this book is I walked away actually feeling like I learned a thing or two.
Rick's relationship with his grandfather really enhanced the story and I'm not only talking about the grandfather's backstory although I liked that part as well. I loved how Rick was eventually able to see his grandfather as a person and not just in the role of a grandparent. When you have that light bulb type moment when you realize you truly enjoy spending time with an older relative that's pretty special.
There are so many wonderful things to take away from this book. Anytime an author can drive home the message to kids that it is okay to be who you are, that's a good thing.
I won a free copy of this book in a giveaway by Goodreads and the publisher but was not obligated to post a review. All views expressed are my honest opinion.
June 9, 2020
A great follow-up novel to George! I always thought Rick would be an interesting character to follow after his appearance in 'George', so it was really nice to see him develop. His questioning of his identity is really important for a lot of kids to read, I think, as it allows discussion and some understanding of the confusion a lot of kids feel about themselves. Even as an adult, there was a lot to learn from this too - standing up to friends who are hateful, learning of different identities and how to uplift and support diverse voices, etc. I thought Alex Gino did a fantastic job with presenting a lot of different people and identities. It taught me a thing or two!
September 29, 2020
Well, I didn't know that George's book had a sequel, well it's not his continuation, but rather Rick's a character in the other book, it focuses on aspects of his life, it was nice, what i liked most was the appearance of Melissa and see what became of her, I love that girl.
October 1, 2021
I wish that I had this in middle school.
February 29, 2020
How can 10-11-year old identify as asexual? Its the default for many at that age still! Does the author even understand puberty and biology? Would have made more sense if he was 16 or something.
June 24, 2024
It's been a while since I've read an Alex Gino book and Rick did not disappoint!
Although it's not a direct sequel to Melissa, Rick allows readers to seeing some of their old favorites including Melissa! This book specifically follows a main character by the name of Rick who is exploring his own feelings about attraction and romance. Unfortunately, he has a close friend that is misogynistic and homophobic and prevents Rick from being able to discover who he really is. Through the help of his school's QUILTBAG+ group and his amazing grandfather, Rick is able to put words to the way that he's feeling.
I loved that this was story about questioning your identity without coming to a clear resolution. We're constantly evolving as individuals, and I think it's important for kids to understand and recognize that it's a normal part of growing up. Although Rick experiences some horrible behavior at the hands of Jeff, it was great to see that he had a support network in not only the QUILTBAG+ group, but also his grandfather. The two of them shared great conversations about respecting boundaries, identities, and standing up for what's right even when it's your friend doing the wrong thing.
Overall, this was a quick, easily digestible novel that brought constant smiles to my face. Definitely check it out.
Although it's not a direct sequel to Melissa, Rick allows readers to seeing some of their old favorites including Melissa! This book specifically follows a main character by the name of Rick who is exploring his own feelings about attraction and romance. Unfortunately, he has a close friend that is misogynistic and homophobic and prevents Rick from being able to discover who he really is. Through the help of his school's QUILTBAG+ group and his amazing grandfather, Rick is able to put words to the way that he's feeling.
I loved that this was story about questioning your identity without coming to a clear resolution. We're constantly evolving as individuals, and I think it's important for kids to understand and recognize that it's a normal part of growing up. Although Rick experiences some horrible behavior at the hands of Jeff, it was great to see that he had a support network in not only the QUILTBAG+ group, but also his grandfather. The two of them shared great conversations about respecting boundaries, identities, and standing up for what's right even when it's your friend doing the wrong thing.
Overall, this was a quick, easily digestible novel that brought constant smiles to my face. Definitely check it out.
March 30, 2020
I received an ARC from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
After reading Alex Gino's previous novel, George, I couldn't wait for another book in this universe. Rick is starting middle school and is posed with the nagging questions from his parents about crushes on girls and boys - but he just wants to spin coins. Romantically, Rick has never had a crush on anyone and this is very confusing for him. Rick is a powerful coming of age story about a boy questioning his sexuality, conquering middle school, outgrowing an old friend and gaining new friends. The way Alex Gino wrote and organized Rick's character development was marvelous and I just loved reading about Rick!
As I stated, I was so excited to read another book set in the George universe. It was a delightful read and I didn't want to leave Melissa just yet. Luckily, Melissa is all over this book! (plus some other characters from George). I loved seeing her middle school self, she's fierce and so confident!
Rick deals with the exploration of asexuality but it also shows the usage of pronouns when Rick meets other kids at his school who are also on the LGBTQIAP+ spectrum. He feels less alone and this helps his questioning process. This book is very informative about asexuality and its spectrum. It also has an important conversation about pronouns specifically the usage of "they/them" which I really appreciated!
Next, Rick faces a hard decision in his life - having a jerk best friend. Jeff felt very much like Sid from Toy Story for some imagery. He's rude and Rick just follows his lead without sticking up for himself. Rick has a lot of development as he has to figure out if he wants to stay friends with Jeff with some consoling from his Grandpa Ray. I loved his relationship with his grandpa, I was very close with my grandmother when I was a kid, so I always admire a grandkid/grandparent relationship!
This book made me want to time travel back to middle school and attend Jung Middle School - mainly for the Rainbow Spectrum Club - I know that Rick is going to touch so many children whether they know someone who is QUILTBAG+ or are questioning themselves or just trying to conquer middle school like Rick. I really wish I had this book when I was just a confused twelve year old! Alex Gino always writes a fantastic middle grade and Rick didn't disappoint! My only complaint is that this book is OVER?
Please, I'M BEGGING YOU. Pick this up ASAP.
After reading Alex Gino's previous novel, George, I couldn't wait for another book in this universe. Rick is starting middle school and is posed with the nagging questions from his parents about crushes on girls and boys - but he just wants to spin coins. Romantically, Rick has never had a crush on anyone and this is very confusing for him. Rick is a powerful coming of age story about a boy questioning his sexuality, conquering middle school, outgrowing an old friend and gaining new friends. The way Alex Gino wrote and organized Rick's character development was marvelous and I just loved reading about Rick!
As I stated, I was so excited to read another book set in the George universe. It was a delightful read and I didn't want to leave Melissa just yet. Luckily, Melissa is all over this book! (plus some other characters from George). I loved seeing her middle school self, she's fierce and so confident!
Rick deals with the exploration of asexuality but it also shows the usage of pronouns when Rick meets other kids at his school who are also on the LGBTQIAP+ spectrum. He feels less alone and this helps his questioning process. This book is very informative about asexuality and its spectrum. It also has an important conversation about pronouns specifically the usage of "they/them" which I really appreciated!
Next, Rick faces a hard decision in his life - having a jerk best friend. Jeff felt very much like Sid from Toy Story for some imagery. He's rude and Rick just follows his lead without sticking up for himself. Rick has a lot of development as he has to figure out if he wants to stay friends with Jeff with some consoling from his Grandpa Ray. I loved his relationship with his grandpa, I was very close with my grandmother when I was a kid, so I always admire a grandkid/grandparent relationship!
This book made me want to time travel back to middle school and attend Jung Middle School - mainly for the Rainbow Spectrum Club - I know that Rick is going to touch so many children whether they know someone who is QUILTBAG+ or are questioning themselves or just trying to conquer middle school like Rick. I really wish I had this book when I was just a confused twelve year old! Alex Gino always writes a fantastic middle grade and Rick didn't disappoint! My only complaint is that this book is OVER?
Please, I'M BEGGING YOU. Pick this up ASAP.
October 7, 2019
Oof owie ouch. Stilted, heavy-handed, preachy writing. Important topics, yes, but "Rick" treats its readers like dummies and beats them over the head with hyper-specific textbook terminology. Nothing about this book feels organic and everyone is so on the defensive, with every sentence or interaction being another hot-button topic. And how is it that the queer teacher and sponsor of the LGBTQ+ is the person who doesn't know about they/them pronouns??
Only plus: this is the first MG book I've read that I can remember having ace representation...but the overall quality of the writing makes it impossible for me to recommend this book 😭
Only plus: this is the first MG book I've read that I can remember having ace representation...but the overall quality of the writing makes it impossible for me to recommend this book 😭
May 22, 2020
Aw, this was really sweet! A good choice for younger readers to read during Pride Month!
- Follows Rick, a young White boy who is just starting middle school this year! Rick has always felt uncomfortable with the idea of liking boys and girls, and when he learns about the Rainbow Spectrum club, he begins to question his identity.
- I thought this was actually a really sweet book! I didn't really jell with the writing style at first, but I had to remind myself: this is a story for younger readers! and when I adjusted that perspective, I liked it a little more.
- I think this book is a pretty solid choice to introduce younger readers to queer identities and issues. There are some safe discussions about pronouns, identifying, and what identities mean. It's important to note that this book is intended to younger readers, so for what may seem heavy-handed for adults who are familiar with queer issues may be clear and easy-to-understand messages for younger readers.
- This book has questioning and asexual representation! I really appreciated this because both representation is less represented in the rainbow spectrum and I think the exploration of these identities were really good.
- I liked that this book explores toxic friendships. The book does portray how Rick decides to end the toxic friendship and it was done in a way that provides younger readers with a 'framework'(?) of how to set boundaries, stand up for yourself, and do the right thing (reporting the bullying to teachers).
- And the grandson-grandfather relationship in this was so soft and wholesome. My favourite part of the book!
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- Follows Rick, a young White boy who is just starting middle school this year! Rick has always felt uncomfortable with the idea of liking boys and girls, and when he learns about the Rainbow Spectrum club, he begins to question his identity.
- I thought this was actually a really sweet book! I didn't really jell with the writing style at first, but I had to remind myself: this is a story for younger readers! and when I adjusted that perspective, I liked it a little more.
- I think this book is a pretty solid choice to introduce younger readers to queer identities and issues. There are some safe discussions about pronouns, identifying, and what identities mean. It's important to note that this book is intended to younger readers, so for what may seem heavy-handed for adults who are familiar with queer issues may be clear and easy-to-understand messages for younger readers.
- This book has questioning and asexual representation! I really appreciated this because both representation is less represented in the rainbow spectrum and I think the exploration of these identities were really good.
- I liked that this book explores toxic friendships. The book does portray how Rick decides to end the toxic friendship and it was done in a way that provides younger readers with a 'framework'(?) of how to set boundaries, stand up for yourself, and do the right thing (reporting the bullying to teachers).
- And the grandson-grandfather relationship in this was so soft and wholesome. My favourite part of the book!
Trigger/content warning:
May 2, 2020
Read George yesterday and Rick today and loved both of these books so much!! As an aroace person (though I had no idea at Rick's age haha) who had toxic friendships in middle school this little book was everything to me tbh
May 17, 2020
Such an important book. Please read it. 🖤
August 13, 2021
I adored the first book George and was eager to read this one as well. Think it's a great middle grade teaching kids important topics as the same time being very enjoyable to read with some memorable characters.
May 3, 2020
3.5 - Asexual representation in Middle Grade? Hell yeah!
Rick is just starting middle school, dealing with a best friend who he’s realizing is a bully, and figuring out that he doesn’t have the same feelings about girls or boys that most of his classmates seem to have. When Rick attends a Rainbow Spectrum meeting, his school’s LGBTQIAP+ group, he learns some new language to describe how he’s feeling.
I think this book will give young kids a great way to see themselves represented and to learn about other identities. The kids in the Rainbow Spectrum group talk about pronouns, gender identity, and different sexualities. However, sometimes this does come across as a bit like an informational brochure. I wish it could’ve been integrated a little bit more naturally. But even if parts of it are a bit clunky, it’s great that a book like this exists and shows middle schoolers having these discussions.
This is a companion novel to Alex Gino’s book George. It was great to see Melissa years after the events of that book. But it also made it apparent in my mind that George was a much stronger book overall. Rick lacked the overall charm that George had, and it felt less developed when it came to Rick’s immediate family and friendships.
I’d still recommend checking this out if you’re interested in LGBTQIAP+ Middle Grade books. It’s a sweet story and has a lot of great things to say even if it wasn’t my absolute favorite.
Rick is just starting middle school, dealing with a best friend who he’s realizing is a bully, and figuring out that he doesn’t have the same feelings about girls or boys that most of his classmates seem to have. When Rick attends a Rainbow Spectrum meeting, his school’s LGBTQIAP+ group, he learns some new language to describe how he’s feeling.
I think this book will give young kids a great way to see themselves represented and to learn about other identities. The kids in the Rainbow Spectrum group talk about pronouns, gender identity, and different sexualities. However, sometimes this does come across as a bit like an informational brochure. I wish it could’ve been integrated a little bit more naturally. But even if parts of it are a bit clunky, it’s great that a book like this exists and shows middle schoolers having these discussions.
This is a companion novel to Alex Gino’s book George. It was great to see Melissa years after the events of that book. But it also made it apparent in my mind that George was a much stronger book overall. Rick lacked the overall charm that George had, and it felt less developed when it came to Rick’s immediate family and friendships.
I’d still recommend checking this out if you’re interested in LGBTQIAP+ Middle Grade books. It’s a sweet story and has a lot of great things to say even if it wasn’t my absolute favorite.
November 4, 2021
4.25 ★
It is more important to be respectful than to be right
Trigger Warnings al final
Esta es una lectura ligera pero muuuy importante, andaba en bloqueo y quería leer algo no tan denso pero no trashy
Se ha vuelto uno de mis libros favoritos, no solo abarca el tema de la asexualidad & arromanticismo, sino que toca temas como el uso de los pronombres, roles de género y de amistades tóxicas. Hasta llega a tocar por muy encima la masculinidad tóxica. Amo.
Estoy muy contenta con toda esta representación.
Todo esto lo vemos en la perspectiva de rick, que en lo personal me ha encantado.
Léanlo porfis, al igual que George, este libro debería ser una lectura obligatoria.
Trigger Warnings;
- Bullying
- Homofobia
- Transfobia
- Vómito
It is more important to be respectful than to be right
Trigger Warnings al final
Esta es una lectura ligera pero muuuy importante, andaba en bloqueo y quería leer algo no tan denso pero no trashy
Se ha vuelto uno de mis libros favoritos, no solo abarca el tema de la asexualidad & arromanticismo, sino que toca temas como el uso de los pronombres, roles de género y de amistades tóxicas. Hasta llega a tocar por muy encima la masculinidad tóxica. Amo.
Estoy muy contenta con toda esta representación.
Todo esto lo vemos en la perspectiva de rick, que en lo personal me ha encantado.
Léanlo porfis, al igual que George, este libro debería ser una lectura obligatoria.
Trigger Warnings;
- Bullying
- Homofobia
- Transfobia
- Vómito
March 2, 2021
I almost liked this book too much to be able to review it. This is the Ace representation and validation I needed when I was in elementary, middle, and high schools. This book would have made me feel normal and okay and I can't tell you how much it means to me to that it exists so that no other child will have to go through that very specific hell like I did.
Seriously. Thank you, Alex Gino.
Seriously. Thank you, Alex Gino.
November 19, 2021
why do middle grade books make me cry so much??
November 18, 2020
Oh this was so very wonderful. My heart is extremely full right now.
Having finished and adored George, I found myself desperately wanting more of Alex Gino's empathetic, hopeful work and this did not disappoint. (I think I may have even enjoyed it slightly more than George?) This book is filled with heart, empathy and acceptance in a way that shines brighter in middle grade than any other age/genre. I adored Rick's character and his journey of self discovery, self acceptance and self respect. I loved how he had the courage to not only seek information (he's questioning aro-ace) but to speak up about his findings and stand his ground, despite people trying to fight against him. Rick's relationship with his Grandpa made me ridiculously happy and watching his confidence grow throughout the book was a joy to read.
In terms of being a book for young readers, I thought it did a beautiful job at introducing a wide range of gender identities and sexualities (and how to respectfully discuss them) in a way that was easy to understand and take in. I also thought the way it handled toxic friendships was done brilliantly and could work as a wonderful guide of sorts for young readers on setting boundaries and reporting wrong doings.
All in all, this book was an utter delight and made me hopeful that, with books like these being place in the hands of young readers, the future generation will me a kinder and more accepting one.
TW: homophobia, transphobia
Having finished and adored George, I found myself desperately wanting more of Alex Gino's empathetic, hopeful work and this did not disappoint. (I think I may have even enjoyed it slightly more than George?) This book is filled with heart, empathy and acceptance in a way that shines brighter in middle grade than any other age/genre. I adored Rick's character and his journey of self discovery, self acceptance and self respect. I loved how he had the courage to not only seek information (he's questioning aro-ace) but to speak up about his findings and stand his ground, despite people trying to fight against him. Rick's relationship with his Grandpa made me ridiculously happy and watching his confidence grow throughout the book was a joy to read.
In terms of being a book for young readers, I thought it did a beautiful job at introducing a wide range of gender identities and sexualities (and how to respectfully discuss them) in a way that was easy to understand and take in. I also thought the way it handled toxic friendships was done brilliantly and could work as a wonderful guide of sorts for young readers on setting boundaries and reporting wrong doings.
All in all, this book was an utter delight and made me hopeful that, with books like these being place in the hands of young readers, the future generation will me a kinder and more accepting one.
TW: homophobia, transphobia
March 19, 2020
Fun Facts:
x RICK is a companion novel to Alex Gino’s first middle-grade story GEORGE (which features a transgender protagonist trying out for the school play!) but you don’t have to read it (though you should because it’s outstanding) before diving into RICK.
x GEORGE was the #1 most challenged and banned book in 2018 for its subject matter – Gino’s badass response? “If you’re gonna be banned, at least be number 1.“
Why you should get excited for RICK:
x There are cameos from beloved characters from GEORGE such as Melissa!
x There is an LGBTQIAP+ alliance that discusses and explores the spectrum of queer identity in a supportive and safe environment
x A cosplaying grandfather who’s as much of a nerd as we all are when it comes to his favourite TV series? Check!
“Sometimes Rick wondered if he was gay because he had never had a crush on a girl. But he had never had a crush on a boy either, so how could he be gay?
Perfectly paced and splendidly diverse, RICK should be mandatory for all readers, no matter their age. Rick’s story of exploring his sexuality while faced with the bullying of someone he considers a friend transcends its intended audience and shows readers of all ages that they are worthy of unconditional support.
Rick is such a sweet and enthusiastic kid. He just hasn’t found his place in the world yet – and as he struggles to find it, he understands more and more that there will always be people who will support you no matter what but there are also those that, no matter how hard you try, you will outgrow eventually. Watching Rick come to terms with the fact that his friend Jeff, the one he loves to play video games with and looks to for approval, is actually really disrespectful towards girls and openly harasses anyone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community, is heart-wrenching. Though it is tough to realise that some people will baulk at what they don’t know and don’t want to understand, it was also beautiful to see Rick find a group of friends who support him and understand what he is going through. With the help of his grandfather, who has a secret of his own that translates beautifully in his and Rick’s time together, Rick eventually realises that being friends with Jeff means hiding who Rick really is, and that’s not okay. Friends should support you no matter what.
Within the safe space of the Rainbow Spectrum club, Gino introduces the necessary language to voice your identity (something that is still missing from school curricula, might I add). Alongside Rick, the reader learns about genderqueer identities, the importance of using preferred pronouns and seamlessly highlights that mixing them up and making mistakes is natural without ever discouraging anyone from trying to do better. Instead, even the teacher offers helpful advice and learns a thing or two about what it means to be non-binary. The A in LGBTQIAP+ that is often confused to be standing for Ally instead of Asexual takes on a role in the spotlight as Rick hears it and feels seen for the first time. The revelation that he is not alone, that this is not just him feeling this way is a truly magical thing to read about.
What RICK also excels at is exposing the heteronormative standards that are placed on children at a very early age. Rick’s father constantly asks Rick who he’s got a crush on, reminding him that it’s okay if it’s a boy. But when Rick broaches the subject of perhaps not ever feeling the way other kids his age do, that he maybe does not want to be in a romantic relationship with anyone ever, his father tells him he’s too young to understand what he’s feeling, that he’ll just have to wait to be older. Frustrating and confusing, the scene shows perfectly how we as a society lead children to falsely believe that their worth lies in finding a partner and building a family above all else; anything that threatens this expected outcome is rejected immediately. Gino aptly shows the extra layer of stigma anyone on the asexuality spectrum has been facing and still faces today.
Then again, this wouldn’t be the masterpiece it is if it didn’t end on a hopeful, high note. As Rick begins to feel more comfortable in his skin and articulates his feelings to his grandfather and peers, the reader, too, learns that the most important part of any type of relationship is support. He also learns that though people may be set in their ways, they can learn something new.
Educational without being preachy, enlightening and carefully crafted, RICK is a hopeful and life-affirming read perfect for anyone who needs a reminder that they are worthy – of love, of friendship, of support – unconditionally. As Rick learns about asexuality and takes control of his support system, his story encourages readers to explore their own identity on their own terms, emphasising that their feelings and journeys of self-discovery are vital and valid.
This might just be my new favorite middle grade book of all times.
Review also published here:
https://www.thenerddaily.com/tag/read...
x RICK is a companion novel to Alex Gino’s first middle-grade story GEORGE (which features a transgender protagonist trying out for the school play!) but you don’t have to read it (though you should because it’s outstanding) before diving into RICK.
x GEORGE was the #1 most challenged and banned book in 2018 for its subject matter – Gino’s badass response? “If you’re gonna be banned, at least be number 1.“
Why you should get excited for RICK:
x There are cameos from beloved characters from GEORGE such as Melissa!
x There is an LGBTQIAP+ alliance that discusses and explores the spectrum of queer identity in a supportive and safe environment
x A cosplaying grandfather who’s as much of a nerd as we all are when it comes to his favourite TV series? Check!
“Sometimes Rick wondered if he was gay because he had never had a crush on a girl. But he had never had a crush on a boy either, so how could he be gay?
Perfectly paced and splendidly diverse, RICK should be mandatory for all readers, no matter their age. Rick’s story of exploring his sexuality while faced with the bullying of someone he considers a friend transcends its intended audience and shows readers of all ages that they are worthy of unconditional support.
Rick is such a sweet and enthusiastic kid. He just hasn’t found his place in the world yet – and as he struggles to find it, he understands more and more that there will always be people who will support you no matter what but there are also those that, no matter how hard you try, you will outgrow eventually. Watching Rick come to terms with the fact that his friend Jeff, the one he loves to play video games with and looks to for approval, is actually really disrespectful towards girls and openly harasses anyone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community, is heart-wrenching. Though it is tough to realise that some people will baulk at what they don’t know and don’t want to understand, it was also beautiful to see Rick find a group of friends who support him and understand what he is going through. With the help of his grandfather, who has a secret of his own that translates beautifully in his and Rick’s time together, Rick eventually realises that being friends with Jeff means hiding who Rick really is, and that’s not okay. Friends should support you no matter what.
Within the safe space of the Rainbow Spectrum club, Gino introduces the necessary language to voice your identity (something that is still missing from school curricula, might I add). Alongside Rick, the reader learns about genderqueer identities, the importance of using preferred pronouns and seamlessly highlights that mixing them up and making mistakes is natural without ever discouraging anyone from trying to do better. Instead, even the teacher offers helpful advice and learns a thing or two about what it means to be non-binary. The A in LGBTQIAP+ that is often confused to be standing for Ally instead of Asexual takes on a role in the spotlight as Rick hears it and feels seen for the first time. The revelation that he is not alone, that this is not just him feeling this way is a truly magical thing to read about.
What RICK also excels at is exposing the heteronormative standards that are placed on children at a very early age. Rick’s father constantly asks Rick who he’s got a crush on, reminding him that it’s okay if it’s a boy. But when Rick broaches the subject of perhaps not ever feeling the way other kids his age do, that he maybe does not want to be in a romantic relationship with anyone ever, his father tells him he’s too young to understand what he’s feeling, that he’ll just have to wait to be older. Frustrating and confusing, the scene shows perfectly how we as a society lead children to falsely believe that their worth lies in finding a partner and building a family above all else; anything that threatens this expected outcome is rejected immediately. Gino aptly shows the extra layer of stigma anyone on the asexuality spectrum has been facing and still faces today.
Then again, this wouldn’t be the masterpiece it is if it didn’t end on a hopeful, high note. As Rick begins to feel more comfortable in his skin and articulates his feelings to his grandfather and peers, the reader, too, learns that the most important part of any type of relationship is support. He also learns that though people may be set in their ways, they can learn something new.
Educational without being preachy, enlightening and carefully crafted, RICK is a hopeful and life-affirming read perfect for anyone who needs a reminder that they are worthy – of love, of friendship, of support – unconditionally. As Rick learns about asexuality and takes control of his support system, his story encourages readers to explore their own identity on their own terms, emphasising that their feelings and journeys of self-discovery are vital and valid.
This might just be my new favorite middle grade book of all times.
Review also published here:
https://www.thenerddaily.com/tag/read...
May 28, 2020
Alex Gino mais uma dá uma aula sobre como abordar questões LGBTQIAP+ com crianças! Rick é um menino na sexta série que começa a participar do grupo Rainbow Spectrum: um clube para e sobre a comunidade LGBTQIAP+ da escola; só que ele faz isso em segredo porque o seu melhor amigo, Jeff, é um bully insuportável.
Além de mostrar o Rick aprendendo sobre o espectro ace/aro e que talvez se encaixe em algum lugar dele, é um livro que fala sobre questionar as atitudes dos seus amigos e não ficar em inércia com bullying e preconceito. Tem algumas cenas maravilhosas aqui, como o professor que media o Spectrum admitindo que não sabia sobre como pessoas usam they/them no singular, e usando a sigla QUILTBAG+ para ensinar as crianças sobre como a comunidade é vasta. E O AVÔ DO RICK, MELHOR PESSOA!!!
É um livro rapidinho, gostoso de ler, informativo e realmente pensado em como ajudar, preparar e normalizar pequenos humanos para algumas situações. Sem dúvidas que continuarei lendo qualquer coisa que Alex Gino escrever! :)
Além de mostrar o Rick aprendendo sobre o espectro ace/aro e que talvez se encaixe em algum lugar dele, é um livro que fala sobre questionar as atitudes dos seus amigos e não ficar em inércia com bullying e preconceito. Tem algumas cenas maravilhosas aqui, como o professor que media o Spectrum admitindo que não sabia sobre como pessoas usam they/them no singular, e usando a sigla QUILTBAG+ para ensinar as crianças sobre como a comunidade é vasta. E O AVÔ DO RICK, MELHOR PESSOA!!!
É um livro rapidinho, gostoso de ler, informativo e realmente pensado em como ajudar, preparar e normalizar pequenos humanos para algumas situações. Sem dúvidas que continuarei lendo qualquer coisa que Alex Gino escrever! :)
April 19, 2020
This is absolutely not a book for young kids. It's pretty disgusting how much the schools are pushing sexual behavior on to CHILDREN!! CHILDREN!! This book only serves to further confuse children who are going through hormonal changes, as well as to undermine efforts of parents trying to help their children navigate through their confusion. It's one thing to teach the concept of "love who you want to love" but they've now gone as far as denying basic science and lying to children about their bodies. This is beyond disgusting and frankly borderline child abuse as it leads to PERMANENT changes and damages to the body. I beg parents considering indulging in their child's confusion, think back to your pre-teen years. Are you the same person? With the same values and wants? At 34 I'm not even the same person I was when I was 21. How are you going to explain to your adult child that you mutilated and poisoned their bodies 10-15 years later when they've come to accept their biological gender? 90% of children who question their gender come to the realization and acceptance of their gender by age 21. When I was 13 I wanted to be a boy- THANK GOD my parents didn't put me on puberty blockers and shave my head!! I love being a woman!! I'm not saying I know the best approach or how to help your child navigate through such a difficult and confusing time, I'm just saying don't make permanent life decisions based on feelings that are most likely temporary.
April 23, 2020
This is a sweet book, but it's not as good as its companion novel, the award-winning George. George does what all great books do, and transcends its genre. It was written for young middle grade readers, but because it was so well-written and so personal, and developed the character of Melissa so beautifully, it just felt like a good story, all the while it was also teaching kids about what it means to be trans, and emphasizing themes like empathy, friendship, and kindness.
Rick has similar goals, this time with a protagonist who is unsure of his sexual identity, but is leaning towards asexual/aromantic. Rick is the best friend of Jeff, the boy who bullied Melissa in George. Rick is Jeff's best friend mostly out of habit, but is slowly coming to realize that he doesn't have to be Jeff's friend and do the things Jeff wants (and ignore the bad things Jeff does) if he doesn't want to. He is in a constant state of anxiety, pulled between wanting to understand his own identity and disapproving of Jeff's actions, and feeling pressured and upset about the prospect of Jeff making fun of him or his new friends, of Jeff rejecting him. I thought this part of the book was pretty good. Rick's struggle to figure out who he was and not just go along felt very middle school to me (a time of life that I hated), although it still didn't feel as personal to me as Melissa's inner journey in George.
This book also felt very obviously didactic in a way that George didn't. The message was great, and younger kids would probably love it, but to me as an adult, it felt constructed.
The best part of this book was Rick's relationship with his grandpa, who he hasn't really gotten to know before. He's now discovered that out of all his family members, his grandpa and he have the most in common, and it's just so heartwarming to see them interact with each other. They both love the same old sci-fi TV show, and it opens up a space for Rick to be seen by someone who understands him, and the same for his grandfather. They both love Rick's dad, but agree he's not the easiest person to talk to, and finding kindred spirits in each other fills spaces in both their hearts.
In terms of the ace rep, I think this book did a pretty good job, although there seems to be almost as much focus on other sexual and gender identities, because of the LGBTQIAP+ support group Rick starts going to at his new school. Maybe it's because Rick's issue has less inherent conflict than Melissa's, a lack of sexual or romantic feelings, rather than Melissa's constant inner struggle to not be pushed into a box other people want her to be in. It was nice that the book dealt so frankly with how older people often dismiss and invalidate sexual and gender identity questioning in younger people because "they're too young" to have those feelings, which is bullshit.
Worth reading, though! Definitely worth it for younger readers, but it's just not up to the gold standard set by George.
[3.5 stars, rounded up]
Rick has similar goals, this time with a protagonist who is unsure of his sexual identity, but is leaning towards asexual/aromantic. Rick is the best friend of Jeff, the boy who bullied Melissa in George. Rick is Jeff's best friend mostly out of habit, but is slowly coming to realize that he doesn't have to be Jeff's friend and do the things Jeff wants (and ignore the bad things Jeff does) if he doesn't want to. He is in a constant state of anxiety, pulled between wanting to understand his own identity and disapproving of Jeff's actions, and feeling pressured and upset about the prospect of Jeff making fun of him or his new friends, of Jeff rejecting him. I thought this part of the book was pretty good. Rick's struggle to figure out who he was and not just go along felt very middle school to me (a time of life that I hated), although it still didn't feel as personal to me as Melissa's inner journey in George.
This book also felt very obviously didactic in a way that George didn't. The message was great, and younger kids would probably love it, but to me as an adult, it felt constructed.
The best part of this book was Rick's relationship with his grandpa, who he hasn't really gotten to know before. He's now discovered that out of all his family members, his grandpa and he have the most in common, and it's just so heartwarming to see them interact with each other. They both love the same old sci-fi TV show, and it opens up a space for Rick to be seen by someone who understands him, and the same for his grandfather. They both love Rick's dad, but agree he's not the easiest person to talk to, and finding kindred spirits in each other fills spaces in both their hearts.
In terms of the ace rep, I think this book did a pretty good job, although there seems to be almost as much focus on other sexual and gender identities, because of the LGBTQIAP+ support group Rick starts going to at his new school. Maybe it's because Rick's issue has less inherent conflict than Melissa's, a lack of sexual or romantic feelings, rather than Melissa's constant inner struggle to not be pushed into a box other people want her to be in. It was nice that the book dealt so frankly with how older people often dismiss and invalidate sexual and gender identity questioning in younger people because "they're too young" to have those feelings, which is bullshit.
Worth reading, though! Definitely worth it for younger readers, but it's just not up to the gold standard set by George.
[3.5 stars, rounded up]
March 20, 2021
This was 🏳🌈excelent🏳🌈
RTC
RTC
December 3, 2021
Read as part of a challenge to read a book with an aromantic or asexual (“ACE”) character. I really enjoyed being part of Rick’s life and maturation into a young adult. Gino captured the interests and thoughts of a young person at that age really well. Rick’s voice felt authentic to this reader. Highly recommend this to parents and adults who work with this age group because Gino has laid out a pretty perfect support scenario for a young, queer person – and by perfect, I mean realistic and attainable.
Rick is entering middle school and he notices his classmates and peers are more and more often starting to talk about their interest in the opposite sex, the very first impulses of romantic and physical attraction. Rick also notices that he isn’t having the same impulses. Girls don’t really interest him. And boys don’t interest him either. He’s not sure what to make of himself but he’s starting to feel different and maybe like he’s not going to be what his parents, and everyone else, expects. Even though he doesn’t think he’s gay, he is curious about the Rainbow Spectrum club at middle school. He senses that he’d at least find some kids there who feel different too.
Rick is figuring himself out in this book and making critical decisions that will shape his life in more than just matters of gender identity or sexual orientation. Gino places some excellent adult role models in Rick’s life. His grandfather is a non-judgmental adult, a good listener, wise enough to offer insights and opinions without telling Rick what to do. Likewise with the teacher who sponsors the Rainbow Spectrum club. He’s willing to listen to and learn from the students and work with them in figuring out solutions rather than hemming them in with his sole perspective and experience. Just great examples of leadership of young people who are far from the full independence of adulthood but very capable of critical thinking about themselves and their world.
I had to chuckle at how his older sister, a college freshman, totally missed the opportunity to connect with Rick when he wanted to talk. Typical of that age – looking back I probably missed some opportunities to offer good counsel to my younger siblings as well.
While there were a few elements added in that make for a good story and are unlikely to be commonly found in the real world (such as Grandpa and Grandma’s former secret life), there’s no reason why all the elements that help the fictional Rick succeed can’t be in place for the majority of youth of that age. I hope this book finds its way onto virtual and physical reading shelves wherever there’s an ACE like Rick.
Rick is entering middle school and he notices his classmates and peers are more and more often starting to talk about their interest in the opposite sex, the very first impulses of romantic and physical attraction. Rick also notices that he isn’t having the same impulses. Girls don’t really interest him. And boys don’t interest him either. He’s not sure what to make of himself but he’s starting to feel different and maybe like he’s not going to be what his parents, and everyone else, expects. Even though he doesn’t think he’s gay, he is curious about the Rainbow Spectrum club at middle school. He senses that he’d at least find some kids there who feel different too.
Rick is figuring himself out in this book and making critical decisions that will shape his life in more than just matters of gender identity or sexual orientation. Gino places some excellent adult role models in Rick’s life. His grandfather is a non-judgmental adult, a good listener, wise enough to offer insights and opinions without telling Rick what to do. Likewise with the teacher who sponsors the Rainbow Spectrum club. He’s willing to listen to and learn from the students and work with them in figuring out solutions rather than hemming them in with his sole perspective and experience. Just great examples of leadership of young people who are far from the full independence of adulthood but very capable of critical thinking about themselves and their world.
I had to chuckle at how his older sister, a college freshman, totally missed the opportunity to connect with Rick when he wanted to talk. Typical of that age – looking back I probably missed some opportunities to offer good counsel to my younger siblings as well.
While there were a few elements added in that make for a good story and are unlikely to be commonly found in the real world (such as Grandpa and Grandma’s former secret life), there’s no reason why all the elements that help the fictional Rick succeed can’t be in place for the majority of youth of that age. I hope this book finds its way onto virtual and physical reading shelves wherever there’s an ACE like Rick.
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