Here’s A Breakdown Of The Ben Affleck And Jennifer Lopez Divorce Rumors Amid Reports They’re Taking Time Apart

After attending the Met Gala solo, J.Lo seemingly liked a post about struggling to maintain a relationship with someone who lacks “integrity,” “communication skills,” and can’t provide “emotional safety.”

More reports have surfaced about the apparent state of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s marriage, so here’s a breakdown of what's going on.

Jennifer Lopez in a sparkling, asymmetrical dress and Ben Affleck in a formal suit at an event

Nearly two years after they tied the knot in 2022, rumors have been circulating that Bennifer might be on the rocks for a second time since their high-profile split back in 2004.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez on the red carpet, Affleck in a dark suit and Lopez in a black gown, promoting Lopez's "This Is Me...Now" album

Speculation about their marriage started making waves at the start of this month when J.Lo attended the Met Gala solo on May 6, prompting fans to notice that she and Ben hadn’t been seen together in over a month, which is quite rare for them.

Jennifer Lopez on the red carpet, wearing an elegant, metallic gown with ornate shoulder details and a matching necklace. Photographers are visible in the background

Amid speculation surrounding Ben’s absence at the Met, where his wife was an honored co-chair, a rep for the Oscar winner told Entertainment Tonight that he couldn’t make the trip to NYC due to filming commitments for The Accountant 2 in LA.

Ben Affleck walking outdoors, wearing a patterned knit cardigan over a white t-shirt and blue jeans

And now, with J.Lo soon to embark on her first North American tour in five years, additional reports have suggested that work commitments could be making it difficult for the duo to see eye-to-eye.

Ben Affleck, Jennifer Lopez, and Emme Muniz sit courtside at a basketball game. Ben wears a plaid shirt and hat, Jennifer wears a glittery jacket

On May 17 — a day after the couple were photographed together for the first time in 47 days, both wearing wedding rings — a source told People that they’re currently living separately.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are seen stepping out of a building together. Affleck wears sunglasses, a Nirvana t-shirt, and a jacket. Lopez is in a long coat and sunglasses

That same day, another source added fuel to the speculation by telling Entertainment Tonight that Ben and J.Lo have “had their ups and downs” and are “not always on the same page.”

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez at a red carpet event. Ben wears a black velvet suit; Jennifer wears a shiny, metallic top with a high neck

And now, as split rumors have continued to gain traction online, ET has published yet another report about Ben and J.Lo’s relationship — this time with a source alleging that the two are currently taking some time apart to figure out what they want.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck pose together, smiling, on a red carpet. Jennifer wears a sleek, form-fitting dress, while Ben is in a suit with an open-collared shirt

Since their recent outing, neither Ben nor J.Lo have commented on the rumors about their marriage. However, Jen recently hinted at private tensions by liking an Instagram post about struggling to maintain “a relationship with someone who is disconnected from themselves.”

Instagram post by yourcourageouscomeback with quote: "You can’t build a relationship with someone who is disconnected from themselves..." followed by a heart emoji. Liked by jlo and others

Notably, Ben previously revealed he suggested J.Lo refrain from sharing their relationship on social media when they rekindled in 2021, saying in Jen’s recent documentary film, The Greatest Love Story Never Told: “We’re just two people with different kinds of approaches trying to learn to compromise.”

Ben Affleck wearing a casual sweater, seated in an indoor setting, looking towards the camera. Background details include a blurred room with decor and cushions

The documentary — which premiered in February — highlighted Jen and Ben’s differing approaches to privacy, most prominently in a scene where J.Lo invites a group of aspiring musicians to read an intimate collection of love letters that Ben had written for her over the course of 20 years.

Screenshot from "The Greatest Love Story Never Told"

Quite taken aback by his wife’s decision to share his private letters, Ben says: “I did really find the beauty and the poetry and the irony in the fact that it’s the greatest love story never told. If you’re making a record about it, that seems kind of like telling it.”

Ben Affleck sitting on a couch, wearing a casual grey sweater, looking thoughtful

On Sunday, Ben and J.Lo were again pictured together in LA, this time in Ben's car. Neither of them has directly acknowledged the split rumors, but we've contacted their representatives for comment.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are seen together driving in a car

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