“I Accept That I Should Be Shamed”: Oprah Winfrey Heartbreakingly Recalled Joan Rivers Telling Her She Was “Fat” On National TV

    “Joan Rivers turns to me, and she says, ‘Tell me why are you so fat?’ ... And I didn’t know what to do with that.”

    Oprah Winfrey recalled feeling “shamed” by Joan Rivers on national television in the early days of her career.

    Oprah Winfrey poses on the red carpet in an elegant off-the-shoulder dress

    On this week’s episode of The Jamie Kern Lima Show podcast, Oprah looked back on her very first appearance on The Tonight Show in 1985. Joan Rivers hosted the talk show at the time, and Oprah recalled the late comedian making hurtful comments about her size.

    Oprah Winfrey, wearing a patterned dress, gestures while talking to Joan Rivers, who is seated at a desk during a TV interview on a talk show set

    “Joan Rivers turns to me, and she says, ‘Tell me why are you so fat?’” she said on the podcast this week. “On national television! And I didn’t know what to do with that.”

    Joan Rivers in a fur coat with a purple pendant, and purple earrings at a celebrity event

    Heartbreakingly, Oprah said she “agreed” with Joan, who apparently told her: “I’ll let you come back if you lose 15 lbs. You need to lose 15 lbs.”

    Oprah Winfrey on the GLAAD Awards red carpet, wearing a suit with a wide lapel, and glasses

    After this interaction, Oprah went to a “health retreat” to try to lose weight. “At the time, they called them fat farms,” she said.

    Oprah Winfrey speaks into a microphone during an interview on "The Jamie Kern Lima Show," gesturing with her hands

    Around this time, Oprah was grappling with the fact that her size may have lost her a role in The Color Purple. However, it wasn’t long before she received an important call from the film’s producer, Steven Spielberg, who told her that losing weight wasn’t what she needed to do.

    Oprah Winfrey in "The Color Purple"

    Notably, his call came just as Oprah was beginning to accept that she may not appear in the film.

    Oprah Winfrey is seated and holding a microphone, dressed in a stylish suit, speaking at an event

    As we now know, Oprah landed the part of Sofia, which earned her an Oscar nomination for Best Supporting Actress. Looking back, the 70-year-old said that whole experience became her “grounding teaching for the rest of [her] life and career.”

    Oprah Winfrey on stage, wearing an embellished purple dress, speaking and gesturing with her arms open wide. She holds a card in one hand

    You can find the full episode of The Jamie Kern Lima Show here.

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