Follow These 10 Rules and Thanksgiving Will Be Smooth Sailing

How to win at Thanksgiving before dinner has even started.
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Think of the Thanksgiving pregame like prepping for a college tailgate, but the food and drink is much, much better. Here's how to do it right.

  1. Set the table Wednesday morning.

  2. Be kind, don't take the bait, and don't get drawn into the same old family fight you always do.

  3. If that's not possible, download the Headspace app now.

  4. Always run your dishwasher so it's empty and waiting.

  5. D-E-L-E-G-A-T-E.

  6. Invite a few friends. Your family will behave better.

  7. Never drink a martini on an empty stomach.

  8. But go light with the pre-dinner snacks: Spiced nuts are ideal.

  9. You can never have enough club soda. Someone's going to want a mixed drink. Someone's going to swill red wine on the tablecloth.

  10. Cocktail hour should be at least one hour but never more than two.

Our editor in chief's Thanksgiving rules: