How do you let her down easy when you never planned to for this? Because if the sex wasn't so bad, you'd probably still be hooking up...
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So, there’s a girl in my friend group who I was getting closer to around the time that she and her ex broke up. We kinda started flirting a little bit but like, harmless flirting (we’re both queer and party a lot what are you gonna do). This eventually lead to a hook-up after we were the last people left at the bar after a group hang. We were drunk, it seemed like a fun idea. But actually it was not fun. It was some of the worst sex of my life and I don’t really have any interest in hooking up again. She sexted me the next morning about how hot it was and I agreed just to be nice, but have ...
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