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Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself Kindle Edition
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication date23 April 2016
- File size2322 KB
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Customers find the content very useful and helpful with techniques and methods for recovery. They also appreciate the brilliant list of resources. Opinions differ on the writing style, with some finding it authoritative and well-written, while others say it's repetitive and muddled.
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Customers find the content very useful, giving guidance to recover from toxic relationships. They also say the book is professionally informed, properly written, and a great survival tool. Readers also mention that the book provides empowering and inspirational content that is concise and practical.
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Customers are mixed about the writing style. Some find it authoritative, well written, and coherent. They also say the book is easy to understand and provides lots of links and recommendations. However, others find the book repetitive, muddled, and hard to read. They mention that the organization is a bit random in places and that there is'significant amount of mumbo jumbo'.
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In the past I've read and watched many more useful materials, so this book seems ordinary in comparison. Arabi's "Smart Girl's Guide to Self-Care" was much, much better. Some women may still find this position empowering and inspirational, though, so if you're not sure about it, just give it a go and see for yourself if you like author's way of approaching the subject.
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Our daughter in her teens was having issues with mother. About 20 years ago she told me that the school councillor told her to read a book "How to live with a narcissistic mother".
This stimulated me to read a few books and I was convinced that my wife a mild narcissist. My wife found that word very offensive and the psychologist used the term "extreme extrovert"
My wife has always been analyzing family members in our country psychologically after a visit there. She has no training in psychology but does watch Dr Phil regularly. In the past she used to watch Judge Judy.
I was extremely busy in my profession. I am hyperfocused and had a successful career. Our children have diagnosed me as ADHD partly in jest. I replied that I might have a touch of Aspergism! My wife has now become hung up on Aspergism. During a recent conflagration which probably was "narcissist rage" she got her friend search for psychologists specializing Aspergers syndrome and she wanted me to make an appointment. I did an on-line test and I am convinced that I do not have Aspergers.
I read a book by Debbie Mirza and for the first time heard about COVERT narscissm. The book does not have much depth. I then found this book "Arabi, Shahida. Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare"
Reading this book was a Eureka moment. I come from a neuroscience background reading the it was like reading a thesis. This book has been incredibly helpful in understanding my wife's condition. I am adopting some techniques to reduce conflicts after reading the book. I am looking for a therapist who has special expertise in covert narscissm and see him/her single therapy to guide me on how to minimize future conflict. Couples therapy is likely to be a waste and she hates the word narscisst. During couples session in the past she would talk excessively and this left me frustrated. Recently she has been harping on how I did not support her when she had issues my sister in our mother country 52 years ago. Couples therapy is a lost cause. I turned 80 a few months and I want to spend the next 10-15 years of my remaining life with the least amount of stress. Giving her the silent treatment is having some beneficial effects. This book has been God sent.
Als je beschadigt bent door een narcist, is het heel goed en nodig er steeds aan herinnert te worden hoe doortrapt dat iedere keer weer gebeurd. Zodat je niet toch weer de fout in gaat bij de narcist, want jij voelt wel wat de narcist niet voelt. Zodat je niet toch weer aan jezelf gaat twijfelen. De herhaling dient vooral om dat te blijven beseffen en accepteren.
Dit boek krijgt her en der ook wat kritiek. De schrijfster is niet academisch geschoold (geen MSc/psycholoog of ander labeltje) maar ervaringsdeskundige.
Dat maakt haar voor mij juist wel de auteur om te lezen.
Dit boek is in mijn ogen een standaardwerk voor iedereen die met een narcist te maken heeft (gehad). Lees dit boek.