Friends & Family Resources

What can families or friends do? 

Call For Help

Voices of Hope’s Information and Support Line:  888-Hope4Ky (888.467.3459) 

Attend a  Meeting

Voices of Hope’s Family and Friends Smart Support Group

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Get Educated

Not only empowering yourself to make good decisions, but educating yourself will prepare you to be ready with information if and when your loved one is ready to seek help.
•    Enroll in a Narcan course
•    Learn about the nature and risk factors for addiction
•    Stay up to date on the latest research on recovery

Set Boundaries

Create firm limits about what you will and will not tolerate from your loved one, limiting feelings of frustration or being taken advantage of.
Some examples include:
•    No communication when intoxicated (e.g.phone calls or text messages)
•    No alcohol or drugs allowed in the house

Be Patient

Expect recovery, but be prepared for possible return to use. Some individuals achieve long-term recovery on their first attempt, for others, it may take multiple attempts over multiple years. Keep your hope up, as substance use disorder is known as a ‘good prognosis disorder’ in that the majority of people can and do recover.

Get Outside Input

The stigma of substance use disorder often leads to secrecy, isolation, and shame. It is therefore important to seek outside input early and often.
•    Peer Support (e.g. SMART Friends and Family)
•    Professional Help (e.g. Therapist)

Practice Self Care

You will not be able to help your family member or friend, if you cannot help yourself. Work to maintain a healthy routine that includes nutritious meals, daily exercise, and a good night’s sleep.

Consider Comorbidity

The likelihood of a mental illness diagnosis doubles for individuals suffering from substance use disorder. Look for common symptoms and seek professional guidance. Some individuals will be more receptive to dialog and treatment of mental illness than addiction.

Try Immediate Rewards

Alcohol and drugs affects the brain’s reward system. Try incorporating immediate and consistent rewards for healthy decisions. This method is shown to shape positive behavior.

Stay Safe

If you feel like you may be in danger, or that your relationship is not healthy, you may need to end the relationship.  Source:  Recovery Research Institute