How To Be Lonely
Author Kristen Radtke on embracing solitude while deepening connections with others.
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Episode Notes
Paula has a big family, lots of friends, and a girlfriend she adores. For most of her life, however, she has experienced an underlying and unshakeable sense of loneliness. On this episode of How To!, Courtney Martin brings on Kristen Radtke, the writer and illustrator behind Seek You: A Journey Through American Loneliness, to talk with Paula about an emotion that’s hard to talk about—and even harder to confront.
If you liked this episode, check out How To Find Your People and How To Survive a Silent Retreat.
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