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Sister says Kate Spade suffered from depression for years

Kate Spade suffered from years of debilitating depression and refused to get medical help, fearing how that’d look for her “happy-go-lucky” image, the fashion icon’s sister said, according to a report Tuesday.

The fashion designer, a native of Kansas City, Missouri, took her own life inside her Park Avenue condo — in a suicide that came as no surprise to sister Reta Saffo.

“I will say this was not unexpected by me,” Saffo wrote in emails to the Kansas City Star newspaper.

“She was always a very excitable little girl and I felt all the stress/pressure of her brand (KS) may have flipped the switch where she eventually became full-on manic depressive”

Saffo said that within the past three or four years she tried and tried to get her sister – born Katherine Brosnahan – the help she so desperately needed.

“I’d come so VERY close to getting her to go in for treatment (to the same place Catherine Zeta-Jones went for her successful bipolar treatment program). I’d spoken with them on the phone (not telling them exactly who the patient would be). They agreed to fly in and talk with her and take her with them to the treatment center,” Saffo wrote.

“She was all set to go — but then chickened out by morning. I even said I (would) go with her and be a ‘patient’ too (she liked that idea) . . . That seemed to make her more comfortable, and we’d get sooo close to packing her bags, but — in the end, the ‘image’ of her brand (happy-go-lucky Kate Spade) was more important for her to keep up. She was definitely worried about what people would say if they found out.”

Saffo said she’ll always remember the disturbing interest Spade — who no longer owned her eponymous brand, but had started another fashion line — took in the suicide of Robin Williams.

The comic actor hanged himself in 2014 and Saffo fears that event played a role in Spade’s eventual demise.

“She kept watching it and watching it over and over. I think the plan was already in motion even as far back as then,” she said.

Spade’s hubby and business partner, Andy Spade, also played a key role in lobbying the fashion icon to get help – but no avail, according to Saffo.

At some point, the family realized there was only so much that could be done.

Saffo said Spade made a dark and simple request – to come to her funeral.

“After numerous attempts, I finally let go,” Saffo wrote. “Sometimes you simply cannot SAVE people from themselves! One of the last things she said to me was, ‘Reta, I know you hate funerals. . . but for me would you PLEASE come to MINE, at least.”

Saffo wanted to make sure the world knew what a special person her sister was.

“She was a dear little person. So dear — so kind, so funny. I’ll miss our 6-7-hr-long phone conversations between NY and NM,” Saffo wrote.