I get paid to teach women how to manipulate men and get what they want
A glamorous life coach says women can “manipulate men into getting what they want” simply by “amplifying their femininity.”
Margarita Nazarenko, 34, says the sexes are fundamentally different, and is encouraging women to embrace their feminine energy if they want their partners to provide them with a lavish lifestyle.
“If you want men to do more for you, amplify your femininity,” the Australian-based beauty told Southwest News Service on Tuesday. “Men crave femininity and get huge fulfillment from serving feminine energy.”
Nazarenko — who is married to a surgeon and frequently flaunts her envy-inducing lifestyle on Instagram — uses three different animals to unpack female archetypes.
First, there is the divine deer who is the “epitome of feminine energy that every woman should aspire to be.”
Second, there is the “overworked dairy cow” who “does everything and is tired.”
Nazarenko — who is a mom-of-one — says many women fall into this category. In order to break out, she says females “must learn to set boundaries in motherhood and share duties with their partner instead of trying to do everything.”
Meanwhile, the third animal is a “workhorse” — a dominant masculine role that is far removed from the feminine energy that women should aspire to have.
“I was in the horse archetype my whole life,” Nazarenko revealed. “I wanted to pay for bills, and [in turn] I was chasing men who didn’t want to be with me.”
By embracing her feminine energy, however, Nazarenko met the man of her dreams — surgeon Simon, 42.
The blonde beauty insists that the word “manipulate” means “influence in a skillful manner” and that it isn’t actually about swindling a partner. Instead, it is about finding a way for both parties to get what they want.
For instance, Nazarenko recently manipulated her man into a lavish trip to the US, but both parties benefited.
“Simon wanted to buy an RV and I acted interested in his dream and we went to an RV convention in Las Vegas,” she explained. “[But then] we also ended up going on an amazing holiday and stayed in Las Vegas, Los Angeles, and San Francisco and he didn’t buy an RV.”
According to her Instagram bio, Nazarenko is a life coach, although a link to her page only directs to an email sign-up for “future online courses.”
For now, the feminine beauty is sharing some of her top tips with Southwest News Service for free, telling women how to maximize their relationships.
First, the Australian says women should not force their husbands into making lifestyle changes — but rather “influence” or “manipulate” them into doing so.
For instance, if you want your partner to start going to the gym because he is overweight, you should start going yourself. According to Nazarenko, the best form of “influence” — or manipulation — is a partner seeing what it does for you, instead of telling him he needs to go.
Meanwhile, the coach says “women should support their man in whatever he wants to do,” but try and tailor the ideas so that there is a mutual benefit.
After all, Nazarenko says, “ask the right questions in order for him to change the idea into something that suits you more.”
“They will go away and reflect, and you can use this to your advantage — and drive their dream towards what you want,” the savvy beauty proclaimed. “For example, a holiday home in a tropical country.”
