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You’re exhausted, aren’t you? Exhausted from the anger. Exhausted from the pain. Exhausted from hurting the people who actually care about you. Exhausted from waking up every day feeling like you’ve already lost. I'll say it for you... You hate who you’ve become. You feel stuck. You keep saying, "I can't help it," knowing deep down you’re lying to yourself. Every time you swear you’ll change, you end up right back in the same damn place. So then you start blaming everything and everyone else. It’s killing you inside. It's making people around you feel small. You snap at people because it feels like the only way to release the pressure. But then the guilt eats you alive, and you spiral deeper into hating yourself. You don’t have to live like this. I know what it’s like: → Screaming at the people who are just trying to help → Spitting out words you can’t take back → Feeling like you’re drowning in your own bullshit And the worst part? Knowing you’re the one causing the pain. Sometimes, the first step is simply admitting that the problem is YOU. The good news? You’re also the solution. It’s like being chained to a nightmare you can’t wake up from, with every attempt to break free reminding you of how many times you’ve failed. And you keep asking yourself, “Why me?”—believe me when I tell you that you will die before answering that question. A problem doesn’t have to feel like the end of the world when you realize it’s just an opportunity in disguise. Do yourself a favor and ask instead, “What can I do to get better?” Because truth be told... → The pain you’re burying isn’t going to vanish just because you ignore it. → The anger isn’t going to magically disappear. → And nobody’s coming to save you from yourself. What patterns are you repeating that keep you stuck? What’s really driving your anger? What do you think might happen if you actually change? This is it. This is your life. Right now. And you have two choices: 1. Keep letting this sh*t control you, or 2. Face it head-on and start clawing your way out. It’s going to be ugly. It’s going to hurt like hell. If you don’t? I promise this will swallow you whole. People will disconnect from you. So, what’s it going to be? → Keep drowning, or start living? → Keep hurting the people who love you, or become the awesome person you know you can be? → Keep repeating this toxic cycle, or break the damn chain? No one can do this for you. It’s all on you. But if you’ve made it this far, it means you’re ready to take the first step. And that’s enough for today. "It's okay to fall apart. It's not okay to take it out on the world." P.S. You’re not alone, but you’ve got to do the work. 💗