by Rachel, ProbablyRachel.com All in all, I'm a lucky wife. And I feel like I've won the in-law lottery most days. But I still deal with in-law issues, especially around the holidays. It's not conflict, it's forgetfulness. Certain members of my husband's family forget that when I married into their family, I didn't quit my own family. Here's a little bit of background: My husband has a small 'extended' family, their holiday gatherings consisted of maybe 10 people including great aunts/uncles…