‘The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’... So, when your boyfriend describes his ouma – grandma’s cake as the most amazing cake he has ever eaten in his life – you’re in trouble. The standard has been set and although you may think you can alter it or give it a modern twist … that is not what he is looking for, he is looking for that exact same taste he remembers from way back when, that nostalgia provoking mouthful that takes him right back to his ouma’s kitchen– no pressure then…