“Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache,” says the famous American inspirational speaker Iyanla Vanzant. And if there’s someone who knows this the best, that’s people who come from toxic families. The psychological damage one suffers being raised in a dysfunctional family atmosphere is way more difficult to shake than the psychological damage one can suffer in toxic friendships or romantic relationships. Unfortunately, the bad…