Explore the reasons behind why people choose to show only a curated version of themselves. Discover how to navigate through this facade and build genuine connections with others.
You only see two things in someone - what you want to see and what they want to show you. Your eyes & mind can play tricks on you. Listen with your heart!
Coach Rasheeda-Loves on Instagram: “Name one... I'll wait! Never forget Instagram is Instagram, you only ever see what people want to show you, never get so invested in…”
We’ve all heard the term “relationship goals.” People use it in photos and memes on social media all the time to illustrate behavior of so-called “perfect” couples: “He surprised me with flowers! We’re total #RelationshipGoals.” But much like everything else on social media, these posts are often only show what they want you to see. So what exactly are true relationship goals?
Shane and Fatima on Instagram: "It’s time to stop hiding yourself behind your fear. People aren’t losing interest because they see you and don’t like it, they are losing interest because they aren’t seeing you at all! They’re seeing a controlled, curated version of you lacking authenticity and vulnerabiltiy. There is an inherent dishonesty in your approach because you’re only showing them what you think they want to see. And whether they know it or not, they can feel it and that’s why they l
LiveCivil on Instagram: “As the saying goes, "When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time." There are countless times we give the wrong people…”
Reposting @instinctytofficial: This is so very true. Why look to get validation on what others think you should do or change? Simply put, just Be yourself. Don’t change for others or for what they want to see. At the end of the day the ones who are successful are Jose who are authentic both in and out of the spotlight. People gravitate to those who show their true colors all the time. #livelife #lovelife #laughoften #gamer #girlgamer #gamergirl #bae #callofduty #scuf #girlstreamer #twitch