Outside validation

Brandee on Instagram: "You don’t need people to say they are proud of you… You don’t need likes on social media… You DON’T need outside validation. And without all of that… you still ✨ SHINE✨ Night night! 😘"

Abundance won’t flow until you realize… It isn’t about validation 🖤 My vision used to be based solely on external things and outside validation. And even when I would hit those goals, achieve those things, get my desires… I never felt abundant, it never felt enough, + it never lasted. I would hit the goal post + then not be able to do it again, + I would have to work myself to burn out in the process 😩 So how did I change things? I redefined what abundance meant to me… beyond $$$$ in a...

Abundance won’t flow until you realize… It isn’t about validation 🖤 My vision used to be based solely on external things and outside validation. And even when I would hit those goals, achieve those things, get my desires… I never felt abundant, it never felt enough, + it never lasted. I would hit the goal post + then not be able to do it again, + I would have to work myself to burn out in the process 😩 So how did I change things? I redefined what abundance meant to me… beyond $$$$ in a...

Stoicism Confidence quote by Epictetus - "If you are tempted to look outside yourself for approval, you have compromised your integrity. If you need a witness, be your own." Want to learn how to do this in real life? Click here to learn why we value external validation so much, why its futile and how we can have our own backs instead. #stoicism #mindfulmotherhood

“If outside validation is your ONLY source of nourishment, YOU will hunger for the rest of your life.” Validation is the recognition and acceptance of another person's thoughts,feelings, sensations, and behaviors as understandable. Self-validation is the recognition and acceptance of your own thoughts, feelings, sensations and behaviors as understandable. Learning how to use validation effectively takes practice. It’s not necessary to seek validation from anyone. Except, Our Creator…