Participant: How can I forgive my mother so that I let go of all the old baggage? Hellinger: Imagine a child telling her mother, “I forgive you.” How would the mother feel? Participant: Bad. Hellinger: Of course. What would be a different solution? The child says, "Mama, you have given me so much." Do you feel the difference? Participant: Yes. Bert Hellinger Family Constellations. www.MovementsOfTheSoul.com