Unfortunately, not every stepparent feels this way do to their jealous and insecure tendencies. Sad. My husband and I have 5 sons all together (my 2 + his 5 = our heaven of 7!) and we love one another's children....I respect him, them, and their mom tremendously! We have no room for high-school drama such as insecurities or jealousy....can't wait or our family vacation!