Hello, from the other side. 1. It’s been hard learning to give myself a break. I have my rare epiphanies where I can pull myself out before I start sinking, but it’s hard. So, to cope, I’m shopping more than I ever have. Do I advise it? Not unless you’ve been a saver most of your life, but retail therapy is a thing for a reason. I’m not sure that money can buy happiness, but it’s pretty damn close. (I like surround myself with books and pretty things, OK?) 2. My Filofax has been my saving…