The search for happiness is a lot like the search for the Holy Grail. We don’t even know what exactly it is we are looking for. I realize I’m probably the last person to lecture on why seeking happiness is a silly idea. After all, I wrote a book called, The Humanist Approach to Happiness. Check it out – it’s a good book and your purchase of it will make me, very happy. Anyway, it seems to me that a big part of the reason people struggle with being happy is because they don’t recognize it…