Um this is a bad to tell people bc like if someone is at work they're too busy. If they're helping someone move they're too busy. If they're watching someone's kids they're too busy. If they're at a party they're too busy. If they're visiting someone in the hospital they're too busy. If they're doing anything that requires their attention they're too busy. Even if they just feel like being alone, they don't have to include you. You are not entitled to anyone else's time and attention anymore…
Sabrina