In a particularly emotional client session, Rachel (not her real name) yelled, "How am I supposed to feel then?" We were discussing anger management, and she was utterly conflicted about how she should express her anger. Anger had led her to engage in incredibly destructive behaviors towards herself and others, and now she sought my help to figure out how to process all of her strong emotions.As a life coach for entrepreneurs and trauma survivor, I understand how messy dealing with anger can…