Chronic complainers

Back when I was still working in the tech industry (I was a software developer for a small consulting company in my second job out of university) I had a boss that was… shall we say unpopular…

"Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do." Dale Carnegie

"For every time you hear me complain, there are a thousand times when I am silent."

Discover practical and effective methods for handling chronic complainers in your personal and professional life. Learn to transform negativity and promote positivity for a healthier, happier environment.

Complaining

Chronic complaint goes hand in hand with low self-esteem. In fact, you will not find people who genuinely feel good about themselves and who complain. Obviously if the people in our lives made us believe there was something wrong with us because of how we felt, we develop a deeply wired belief th...

"It feels good to finally get it off my chest."

See if you can catch yourself complaining in either speech or thought, about a situation you find yourself in, what other people do or say, your surroundings, your life situation, even the weather. To complain is always nonacceptance of what is. It invariably carries an unconscious negative charge. When you complain, you make yourself a victim. Leave the situation or accept it. All else is madness.