You are used to being chased. And why should you not be? You do not have to do anything, nor to take the lead and I understand. It is one of the advantages of being a woman.
"Instead Of Chasing People, Chase Your Purpose. Chase Self-Awareness And Clarity. Chase Connections With People Who Put In The Same Effort You Do. Don't Chase Someone Who Doesn't Give A Damn About You. Don't." - Sylvester McNutt