Avoiding gossip

I am astonished by how quick I am to run & tell people when someone hurts me. Like, ALL the details. And I am struggling to break the habit. So I thought this flow chart would help remind me that I have a choice when I'm offended. I can run & tell others or I can talk to God about it. One of those choices honors God by keeping relationships intact while the other choice works to destroy something very important to God: UNITY.

Christian Tips For Avoiding Gossip - I would add _ If it's not your news, don't tell it!

Deal With People Talking About You Behind Your Back. (Becuz most of my teenage an 20s I got trapped with the wrong crowd, I was young, reckless with no direction n life so I was an easy target 4 vain judgemental nothing better to do but gossip about others people. I learned typically these bullies/cowardly people dont have enough courage to say shit to my face, ha how can they, they will only prove their crazier/less mature and wish they had something I have that they lack of. An perhaps…

Gossip is anything said about someone to someone that isn't loving and kind and that you wouldn't say directly to the person about whom you're talking . . . you are gossiping.