14 Boob Sex Positions to Try If You Love Nipple Action
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Boobs can do way more than sit on your chest. They are all kinds of fun for everyone, regardless of size, gender, or which end of the boob transaction you’re on, whether you’re the boob-haver, your partner is, or both! Give them the love they deserve with these 14 boob-a-licious boob sex positions.
Fear not, these positions aren’t all just “t*tty f*cking.” (No shade TF, we love you too.) It’s just that boobs like all types of attention. They can be sucked, kissed, licked, squeezed, rubbed, pinched and/or lightly bitten. “Some prefer a light graze or tickle, and others prefer a rougher touch or bite,” says sex expert Niki Davis-Fainbloom. If you don’t know what to do, communicate what feels good to your partner and experiment until you find what works for you.
Nipple play can also help you get to orgasm. “For many vulva-owners, the nipples and clitoris are erogenous zones that speak directly to each other. This means stimulation of one can dramatically enhance sensation in the other,” says queer sex educator Sarah Riccio, co-founder of Delicto.com. For some people, the feeling can be so intense that it can lead to a nipplegasm.
And don’t forget to return the love. “Regardless of your gender, explore some nipple play. Keep in mind, the only function of nipples in men is to experience pleasure!” says Davis-Fainbloom.
There’s plenty to do with a set or two of boobs, no matter what size they are. “It's a common misconception that large breasts are mandatory to enjoy boob sex,” says Riccio. The truth is, not so! “You can also cover your chest in slippery lube and let your partner rub their member all over it! Have them use the head of it to draw circles around your nipples for a super stimulating sensation that works for all chest sizes.” You can also press your boobs around their penis, using your lubey hands to wrap around the top of their shaft.
Ready to bust out some new positions? Slide out of that bra and free those ta-tas for the best boob sex of your life.
Nip-to-Nip
“If you and your partner both get off on nipple stimulation, embrace each other face-to-face, nip-to-nip, and rub them together,” says Riccio. “It can help to hold your own breasts to control the angle and precision of contact. Once you've got them right where you want them, you can flick your partner's nipples with your own nipples, use your nipples to draw circles around your partner's areolas—find what feels good!” Add some lube if you’re into slipperiness.
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Solo Suction
“If you're looking to spice up a solo session, try putting nipple suckers on your breasts prior to clitoral stimulation. This can boost blood flow to the vulva and increase clitoral sensation before you even touch it!” says Riccio. “And don't worry—nipple suckers are typically adjustable and allow you to customize the suction strength.”
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Pet Play
“Folks into pet play and other applicable Dom/sub dynamics might enjoy the experience of being milked like a cow,” says Riccio. “It might sound humiliating—and that's because it is (in the best way, of course!). Aside from the BDSM component, the physical act of pinching and pulling on nipples can feel incredibly pleasurable.”
The Caboose
If you or your partner want to really focus on the feeling of your breasts, remove the sense of the sight from the equation with a seated spoon position. “Your mind can run wild because you can’t see each other,” says sex and relationships expert for Mega Pleasure, Charlotte Johnson. “One partner sits on the bed or chair and the other backs themselves onto their lap. Spoon each other while seated. It gives your partner an easy option to wrap their arms around you and give your breasts the attention they deserve.” Add a vibrating penis ring for penetration or go off-label and use it as hand vibe for deep rumbly clit stim.
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The Buzz Worthy
“This is a position perfect for those who want to focus on their breasts and other erogenous zones at the same time,” says Johnson. Lie back with your legs resting on your partner’s shoulders and let the games begin. (This works if you’re alone too—just put your legs wherever you want.) “It can be helpful to add some vibrating nipple clamps into the mix with this as well, giving you the option to use your hand for stimulating your clitoris if you want.” Which would be a yes.
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The Low Backbend
Feeling excessively flexible? Have your partner lie on their back and straddle them, facing their feet (reverse cowgirl style). Lean back slowly until you're flat against their chest. Not gonna happen? “If you’re not very flexible, then you can try this position sitting up,” says Johnson. “Your partner can give each boob all the love they need.” If you’re adding penetration, your clit is going to be far, far away from what’s going down, so add a long vibrator for easy access.
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The Yab Yum
Into boob sucking? The classic tantric Yab Yum position puts you where you want to be. “The face-to-face seated position where both partners are facing each other allows for easy breast action! It's easy to rub up against your partner’s chest or mouth for some nipple licking or nibbling,” says Rachel Needle, a licensed psychologist and the co-director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. Further the soulful vibe with some luxe CBD lube.
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The Orgasm Generator
You’re going to need an armchair for this one, but pls, make sure it’s sturdy. “The penetrating partner sits in an armchair, and the person being penetrated sits on top facing and straddling their lover with their legs on the arms of the armchair. This allows the top partner’s chest to be facing their lover and makes it easily accessible for nipple play,” says Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers sexual wellness brand and retailer.
The Princess Pose
“It’s the same as the cowgirl, but instead of a person being on their knees while riding on top, you place your feet on the ground or bed. This position allows you to use your feet for leverage and you can lean forward moving your breasts toward your lover,” says Stewart. If your partner presses a vibrator against you, all the better.
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The Boob Off
Lie on your sides facing one another. Fondle one another between your legs with one hand while playing with one another’s nipples with the other,” says Jess O’Reilly, PhD, sex expert at Astroglide. If you want to super-focus on boobs, have a toy handle things down below.
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The Titillating Tease
Climb on top and assume the cowgirl position, freeing up your hands to stimulate yourself. Not only are you on top of your partner and riding them, which is bloody well good enough, but they can enjoy the endlessly fascinating activity of watching your boobs bounce. Lick a finger and swirl it over your nipple, cup them and lift them up, or just let them bob up and down. Pretty much anything you do here is golden.
The Golden Globes
Take control by pushing their legs apart with your knees. Lie on top of them, sort of like reverse missionary, pressing your legs together and grinding and wiggling against them—you'll feel every inch of them more fully. If you can hold a decent plank, let your boobs hover enticingly over them, dipping down to give them a taste every once in a while. Otherwise, rest on your elbows, letting them mouth you as they please.
The Ta-Ta Tease
Some people love boobs so much, they literally want to make love to them. Lie back, use a ton of lube, push your boobs together, and let them go to town in what is essentially the classic titty f*ck. This isn't going to do much for the boob-owner, stimulation-wise, so you can also have them push 'em together while you slide a hand down to attend to yourself. If you're both into it, let them finish on your chest.
The Upright Titty F*ck
Kneel in front of them, lube them up, and press your boobs together, sliding up and down their penis or dildo. Mix it up by alternating boobs with hands and mouth. To blow their mind (as well as what you're already blowing), stroke them with your boobs, then put the tip in your mouth on each upstroke while gazing at them lustfully. Revel in your power as you watch them lose it.
Jill Hamilton is a contributor for Cosmopolitan.com and writes the blog In Bed With Married Women.
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