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DATE SMARTER, MAKE BETTER DECISIONS IN LOVE, AND ACHIEVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE… IT ALL STARTS WITH NOT SETTLING!

By day, Faith Jenkins is the host of Oxygen's Killer Relationship and former host of the nationally syndicated relationship show Divorce Court; by night, she’s a happily married new mother who navigated these dating streets for years before learning how to attract the love of her dreams. When she turned 35 without a wedding ring in sight, like most women, she started getting tons of questions about not being married. But she made a decision: I. Will. Not. Settle.  
 
As an attorney and arbitrator, Faith has presided over hundreds of cases, and has helped couples avoid and resolve a wealth of drama. And she’s seen it all! In Sis, Don’t Settle, she’s gathered an arsenal of love, wisdom and advice for women on how to play it smart.
 
Modern culture would have women believe they can’t have it all—and be smart, successful, strong women with authentic love to boot. Wrong.  Told in her signature style—sometimes salty and sometimes sweet—Faith provides real solutions that will teach you how to thrive in relationships while avoiding common missteps and pitfalls. She delivers it straight, with no chaser, to show us how to level up, and reminds you that how you live single will set the tone for your success in relationships.

Smart, illuminating, and, often laugh-out-loud funny, Sis, Don’t Settle is the essential playbook that will help you build your confidence, generate better results in love, and land a high-value relationship once and for all. You’ll find tips on topics like:
 
  • Strong Independent Women…and the Men Who Love Them
  • What’s Worse than a Bad Relationship? Overextending Your Stay in One
  • Becoming the Right Person to Attract the Right Person  
  • How to Release Trash Subconscious Beliefs that Keep You Settling
  • And much more!
 
Whether you’re single, divorced, or in a situationship, Sis, Don’t Settle reveals the direction and guidance you need to navigate love and take back your power.
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“A modern playbook.”―LA Sentinel

“Listen to Faith. This book is great!”―Steve Harvey, NYT bestselling author of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man

"Judge Faith Jenkins is the personification of what it means to live by faith! I was honored to marry her and her husband, the legendary Kenny Lattimore, and I know first-hand that she is a testament to never settling for less especially when it comes to love. I have no doubt her story, her wisdom, and her insights will motivate every reader to never settle for less than their worth!"―DeVon Franklin, NYT bestselling author of The Wait

"I was relieved that Sis Don't Settle is not about "catching" a man. This easy, wise, and often funny read is about recognizing your innate worth. Read this book. Love yourself. Then, expect more love to enter your life."―Tina Lifford, author of The Little Book of Big Lies

“If there’s one person we can count on for level-headed advice, it’s Faith. She has proven that if you live authentically and listen to that inner voice, you can have a life that exceeds your expectations. A must-read!”
 ―Sunny Hostin, author of I Am these Truths

“This is the best book on how to handle and cope with the different levels you can experience in dating, relationships and situationships! Faith is smart, wise, and she kept me laughing and inspired. She’s the voice you need to cut through all the drama to get on a clear-cut path toward high-value love.” 
 ―Angela Rye, host of "On 1 with Angela Rye" podcast

"Faith is all about believing and she takes the knowledge, wit, and discernment that we love about her in the courtroom and writes it into every page of Sis, Don’t Settle. This book is a must read and it’s absolutely amazing!"―Tia Mowry, author of The Quick Fix Kitchen

About the Author

Faith Jenkins is the host of Oxygen’s hit true crime show, Killer Relationship and former host the nationally syndicated TV show Divorce Court and Oxygen’s Killer Relationship With Faith Jenkins. Previously, she was the host of Judge Faith and has been litigating cases for over 15 years. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband, Grammy-nominated R&B singer-songwriter Kenny Lattimore, and their dog, Cooper.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Legacy Lit (November 14, 2023)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 256 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0306925346
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0306925344
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.66 x 9.3 inches
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Customers say the author does an amazing job incorporating life experiences with hard truths. They also find the book funny, witty, and honest. Readers describe the content as very informative and easy to read.

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Customers find the book very informative, helpful, and thought-provoking. They also appreciate the author's wisdom, insights, and personal experiences. Readers also mention that the book is honest, packed with nonsense advice, and practical steps to a healthy relationship.

"...I smiled, laughed, cried, and gained so much insight and hope from this novel! Faith truly is doing the Lords work with this novel!..." Read more

"This book was an absolute blessing to read! It made me look deep within myself & forgive those whom have hurt me...." Read more

"I really enjoyed this book! Great advice and helpful information. I will suggest this book to others. Please check this one out!" Read more

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Customers find the stories in the book inspiring, honest, and packed with practical steps to heal from past relationships. They also appreciate the uniqueness and practical advice.

"...I thoroughly enjoyed reading this novel! I smiled, laughed, cried, and gained so much insight and hope from this novel!..." Read more

"...She is funny, witty, and honest, three things that I greatly value in authors...." Read more

"Wonderful book full of practical advice and shared stories to help you think next level when it comes to dating, relationships & your happiness ever..." Read more

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Customers find the book easy to read, well written, and suggest it as a thought provoking read. They also appreciate the great stories and points.

"...Just overall very well written and great read, both in content and in just enjoyment...." Read more

"I appreciate how easy the book is to read. Chapters are not long. Great material...." Read more

"Easy to read and very informative. Highly recommend." Read more

"...questioning to my own self about was plainly put and eloquently said with practical wisdom and things to practice...." Read more

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Customers find the writing style funny, witty, and honest. They also find the book wonderfully written, personable, and relatable.

"...I thoroughly enjoyed reading this novel! I smiled, laughed, cried, and gained so much insight and hope from this novel!..." Read more

"...The author has a great voice in her writing and references her own experiences as well as some of what she's seen in her career with other couples...." Read more

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5.0 out of 5 stars EXCELLENT AND POWERFUL READ!
Reviewed in the United States on January 16, 2024
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BUY THIS BOOK! It’ll be well worth your time trust me! I genuinely hope she makes this a series! I thoroughly enjoyed reading this novel! I smiled, laughed, cried, and gained so much insight and hope from this novel! Faith truly is doing the Lords work with this novel! It was so delightful to read about her journey in life and love and see that there are other women who are successful independent and the full package that have encountered similar challenges as me. Beautiful novel produced by an even more beautiful writer and fellow woman that navigated her journey through love. She even provides practical mechanisms that we can implement in our every day life to truly believe and manifest the love and the life we desire! Ladies don’t settle any longer! Believe it, work for it, have faith and you will get the life and love you desire! Happy reading! 💙🫶
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5.0 out of 5 stars 10/5 stars. Every woman (& man, tbh) should read this book.
Reviewed in the United States on April 29, 2022
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I loved this book. I've been an avid reader of psychology, esp focused on relationships/sex for some time and still found this book wonderfully written and refreshing. (For the record, I was not familiar with the author prior to reading this, never seen her shows or anything. So I came into it with no pre-existing opinions of her.) I originally bought this book right as I began a new relationship, my first in several years after taking time to find myself and get clear on what I wanted in a lifelong partnership. I ended up taking time off from reading so by time I got around to actually digging into it, I'd been with this person for about two months and was honestly a little worried the book would bring about unprovoked doubts. I was very curious about it and decided to give it a go anyways. Happy to say I was so very pleasantly surprised!

The author has a great voice in her writing and references her own experiences as well as some of what she's seen in her career with other couples. What I really liked though is that she wrote the book in a thoughtful, very COMPLETE format both in content and in organization of that content. I was worried it would be overly single-girl, feminist focused and more aimed at deterring women away from negative relationships than necessarily speaking to or encouraging those that have begun relationships. (Which in itself is not inheritently a negative thing. Women—or people in general—do need to be more conscientious of the people they date and aware of the signs that we like to ignore when we are attracted to someone. I was just concerned that for me as a newly partnered person, it would have me focusing on negative aspects.) However, this was not the case. She was very holistic in her approach to the topic and covered it in a kind, direct manner, truly focused on helping the reader find a compatible, loving companion (the "right" person for them, which I only say in quotes because I believe this doesn't mean one specific soulmate but rather one of any number of people that could mesh together in happy, healthy, loving relationship); this means not only how to weed out the bad ones but find what you as an individual are looking for AND how to cultivate that relationship—manifest it, if you will—into something that is long lasting (i.e. treating your partner with love and respect, expecting the same in return, understanding healthy sacrifice and compromise without sacrificing your values/self-respect, etc).

Just overall very well written and great read, both in content and in just enjoyment. She is funny, witty, and honest, three things that I greatly value in authors.

My one VERY minor...pet peeves is too strong but thing I noticed is there is a slight perspective focus towards specifically black women (referencing some specific situations that convey this as well as referencing mainly women of color as far as noteworthy examples — Opera, Michelle Obama, etc). This is not surprising in the least considering the author herself is a successful, powerful woman of color, and I don't at all judge since this is written from her perspective and voice. But just something I notice. (Just to note, I notice the same for the reverse in authors who are white, as well as other aspects such as those who are of different sexual orientation or societal level. This is not pointed out as a negative by any means. It's wonderful to hear authors speak in ways that define them as human beings, that's how we connect to each other. Just like I connect to her speaking as a strong woman of ambitious nature. I simply mention this as a fact. Women of color may connect more with these aspects whereas women who are not may not.)

10/5 stars. Everyone would benefit from reading this, woman or not.
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Juanesia Lee
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing read!
Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2024
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This book was an absolute blessing to read! It made me look deep within myself & forgive those whom have hurt me. I even found myself (unexpectedly) deleting numbers out my phone & blocking men off social media just to ensure that no one ever try to pop back into my life lol! My value has just went up! Thanks judge Faith
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5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome read, I highly recommend....
Reviewed in the United States on May 9, 2024
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Wonderful book full of practical advice and shared stories to help you think next level when it comes to dating, relationships & your happiness ever after.
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5.0 out of 5 stars a must read
Reviewed in the United States on May 2, 2024
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I really enjoyed this book! Great advice and helpful information. I will suggest this book to others. Please check this one out!
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sheila
4.0 out of 5 stars Good book!
Reviewed in the United States on December 12, 2023
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I appreciate how easy the book is to read. Chapters are not long. Great material. I was able to see Faith at a meet & greet and was able to get my book signed by her. So excited it came in the mail on time.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent
Reviewed in the United States on May 19, 2024
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She's factual and true
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beth Bradley
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome self-help book!
Reviewed in the United States on April 8, 2024
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If you’re looking for a book to help you get over a relationship or just need a little extra encouragement this is it! Highly recommend!
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Tanya
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, to the point and crisp book
Reviewed in Canada on August 5, 2022
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This book is something I wish I had years ago. While reading I felt like listening to an elder sister speak to me and guide me - an elder sister who has been through the ups and downs and lived the journey. I would gladly gift this to any of my single girlfriends and younger cousins.
Recommended.
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Isi
5.0 out of 5 stars Well worth the read! Inspiring!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 6, 2023
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Loved how candid she was about her life’s journey on love, the mistakes made and the lessons learnt along the way … and she’s funny too. This was an easy and enjoyable read and I learnt so much… and so wholesome too. Thank you Judge Faith 😀❤️
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Dips R.
5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect book for situationships!
Reviewed in India on May 22, 2023
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This book is just like a magic wand. There is so much to learn about relationships, from this book. It is very carefully crafted. With lots of examples of situations, it becomes a lot easier to get the logic clear. I just finished reading the book today. I think more and more women should buy this book. Actually, not only women, but men can buy too.
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5.0 out of 5 stars What I needed to hear
Reviewed in the Netherlands on April 7, 2023
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This book was like a deep conversation you have with a wise older girlfriend who has gone before you in the relationship arena. Faith's experiences and advice rings so true for me and encouraged me to hold unto hope despite all the trials and errors I've had. Read this book, you will not be disappointed!!
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Anna Read
5.0 out of 5 stars Super Buch mit sehr praktischen Tipps
Reviewed in Germany on March 26, 2023
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Wertschätzend geht Faith Jenkins mit eigenen Erfahrungen auf Tipps ein, die man als Singlefrau getrost beherzigen kann. Vor allem ist ihr Ansatz Selbstwert-stärkend und führt über mehr Klarheit über die eigenen Bedürfnisse zu mehr Selbstwirksamkeit. Dabei ist es nicht zu dogmatisch. Es hat mir sehr geholfen, mich souveräner im Datingleben zu bewegen, indem ich meine Bedürfnisse und Werte klarer bestimmt habe mit Hilfe des Buches.
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